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feelyoungagain

Sat 08/01/20 09:23 AM

My answer would be no unless he can produce evidence that he doesn't have the virus.

Can't. He might have it now and not know it. He likely does since he clearly puts himself in harm's way.

X2DaleShine

Tue 11/24/20 07:58 PM

Careless and selfish; he should at least wait the 14 days and the get checked, to reassure that he is clear.

I have a question to ask you... as I am curious what you think?!

A little background:
I got a phone call from John - my ex from 25 yrs ago.... he tells me the (he calls) "boys" i.e. 'mates' across the street got a phone call from the Batemans Bay Soldiers club cause they attended the club - a club where you have to be a member and sign in every time you attend - last week when the C-19 became a 'hot spot' (on Monday to Thursday - 17 people were infected during that time and is closed now for 14 days )... and they were told to go into 14 day isolation and get tested

Now John goes to their place e-v-e-r-y day.. for a couple+ of hours.. that includes a few beers and suck bongs from the 'same' bong.. etc etc... they told him he also needs to go into isolation..

BUT yesterday the boys got tested and were told they don't have the virus.. but still to stay in isolation for 14 days. I asked him if he got tested also, he said why bother if they don't have the C-19 Virus...

This week is my oldest son's birthday and john wants to come down to spend 'time ' with my son at my place.. also means stay overnight because he lives interstate. PS: I have a spare bedroom.

If you were in my position ... would you agree to the 'visit' ?

PS: I have already told him of my decision but I am curious what would be your stand be on this?

what

No chance I would allow him around my child. If he wants to be irresponsible, then he can suffer the consequences.

bobtail76

Thu 11/26/20 03:01 PM

Is this about a virus or him staying in your house?

Edited by bobtail76 on Thu 11/26/20 03:05 PM

bobtail76

Thu 11/26/20 03:07 PM

No chance I would allow him around my child. If he wants to be irresponsible, then he can suffer the consequences.

Yeah...it's a good idea not to let a son bond with his father. Especially if the boy only has over a 99% recovery rate if he does catch it.

Blondey111

Thu 11/26/20 04:43 PM

This thread was started back in July ., Is the party still going laugh

Moi Des

Thu 11/26/20 05:58 PM

This thread was started back in July ., Is the party still going laugh

Are you digging more, Blondey? laugh

Blondey111

Thu 11/26/20 06:52 PM

This thread was started back in July ., Is the party still going laugh

Are you digging more, Blondey? laugh

no oooooo. I like to let sleeping threads sleep :joy:

bobtail76

Thu 11/26/20 07:08 PM

I just got here!!

Rock

Thu 11/26/20 10:55 PM

What was the topic?

Moi Des

Fri 11/27/20 05:58 AM

Is everyone digging deeper? Do we need a post hole digger? laugh

Unknow

Fri 11/27/20 06:19 AM

Have something more to add? Who risks their child ever? Are you a loving parent? Are you a parent at all Grumpy man :yum:

bobtail76

Fri 11/27/20 07:32 AM

Well if I did have a kid, I wouldn't let him leave the house. I'd only let him breath pure oxygen from a tank, while being wrapped in bubble wrap. I certainly wouldn't let him have internet or a TV, in case he hears naughty words or an opinion that might hurt his feelings - besides, the radiation is bad. And friends, forget it. They rip on each other all the time and play fighting is a huge faux pas. No toys - he might hurt himself, choke, or put the dirty thing in his mouth. Sponge baths only, to prevent drowning - and I'd feed him intravenously, so he doesn't choke on his food.

What are you talking about, I'd be the best parent ever!!