Topic: In 1 year, I will have gone 20 years without a kiss or sex
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ivegotthegirth

Fri 12/18/20 06:33 PM

I don't know how this got spun into a quality/quantity thing. My response was to the OP and it seems to me you could have a quality relationship in 19 or 20 years indifferent
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AmethystWyne

Mon 12/21/20 04:18 PM

I can only speak for myself, but I went with what I was thinking in reference to the regrets topic that you mentioned. We all have them, and I'm sure that I'm not the only one who can say that they let someone slip away from them, but rather than taking away from the situation a bunch of regrets and what ifs, I tried to learn from the mistakes that I had made. But quality/quantity can also come into play if a person was using quantity of people to fill a void, but realized the mistake too late. (guilty of this myself). I think that it's open to much interpretation and perspective. waving
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Tom4Uhere

Mon 12/21/20 07:31 PM

if I can understand what caused this, then I'm in a better position to remedy it.

That's logical thinking but ya also gotta realize there may be no defined fault which you can correct.

Part of gaining wisdom (which helps you make better choices) is to learn from all experiences, not just the errors.

You can do everything right.
You can say everything right.
But...If that person is not the right person for you, it won't matter.
The fault/problem may not be in how you act or how you interact but with the choice of person you choose to invest yourself in.

Wisdom is built upon, not replaced.
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Luca

Sun 01/24/21 01:36 PM

mmmm my longest time? must be just about 3 days I think... (kidding, not sharing my secrets here)
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Stu

Sun 01/24/21 04:31 PM

laugh

Well.. I've gotten a few kisses..
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emmanuelkk

Wed 03/03/21 12:28 AM

Too long
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AJ70

Tue 03/09/21 03:41 AM

Coming up on 4 months now. My longest dry spell was 4 years after my marriage...just didnt bother looking.

While I believe in monogamy Im not above a hookup if that itch needs to be scratched.
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Rock

Tue 03/09/21 06:58 PM


Is this a record?
For the record, I'm not a monk
What's the longest you've been without a kiss or sex?


Maybe two weeks?

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Luca

Tue 03/09/21 11:34 PM

Am I the only one finding this very sad?
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Unknow

Tue 03/09/21 11:50 PM


Am I the only one finding this very sad?


No. Anybody can have sex. Sometimes people choose to not have sex.
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Unknow

Wed 03/10/21 12:41 AM


I cannot find the episode but I'm reminded of a hilarious conversation where David Letterman sets the record straight: sex lasts about 5 minutes.


For some...
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Smartazzjohn

Wed 03/10/21 06:53 PM

BRB...I need to google something. I don't remember what sex is. laugh
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Kriss

Tue 04/20/21 04:01 AM

24 years
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Fred

Tue 04/20/21 05:05 AM

Been about three weeks. Fixing to remedy that shortly.
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Poetrywriter

Tue 05/04/21 06:40 PM

I've never had a kiss or sex. Opps my nose is getting longer!

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Slim gym

Tue 05/04/21 07:46 PM

A kiss is overrated and is nothing more than an un necessary exchange of germs...but boy! does it turn me on and then some..... couldn't go a whole year without getting some ...tongue2 tongue2
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Rahul

Wed 05/05/21 08:54 AM

:stuck_out_tongue_closed_eyes:

Well.. I've gotten a few kisses..

hey
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Güney

Sat 05/22/21 11:17 AM

It has been 30 for me. I was actually considering being a monk now that you mention it might as well be one laugh
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Farid Uddin Mondal

Sat 05/22/21 11:59 AM

(((Hugs, kisses and sex))) I think my max was 10 years.

i like it
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Juan David

Mon 05/24/21 09:43 PM

(((Hugs, kisses and sex))) I think my max was 10 years.

hi