Totally agree with your comments river
. I believe that stigma still exists . There has only been a slight shift in attitudes . Regardless of shaming ,(whether by men or society ) ... some women are very open and direct about seeking sex , others choose a more subtle approach .
I am reminded of a saying . “Sex is power”... Stigma/shaming often seek to control and keep power in check .

I am reminded of a saying . “Sex is power”... Stigma/shaming often seek to control and keep power in check .
I agree