It's 1009% correct in his analogy of how it works, the only incorrect part is the scarcity of sex that he mentions but for the explanation that's not really overly important.
All this is based on is a difference in how our brains are wired -which is for a purpose- and the fact that this wiring has to do with different hormones.
The different behaviour, feelings, needs, etc. are a direct result of those different hormones and wiring.
Not rocket science.
What he mentions as a solution, healthy boundaries, is one thing. Another big thing -if not the biggest thing- is self-esteem and self-love. Without that you cannot have healthy boundaries either.
And when you have confidence, self-love & self-esteem you automatically 'repel' people who aren't right for you.
Basically what's at the core is fear of abandonment, something that is part of the collective feminine wound. (for men this is fear of commitment).
Also, having self-confidence, self-love etc. is difficult for women -more so than for men- because of the oppression of the feminine for thousands of years.
This is why so many women get trapped in this perpetual loop of men that leave them hanging.
It's not playing games either, unless you call the way your body functions a game.
Edited by
SparklingCrystal 💖💎
on Fri 05/21/21 09:02 AM