why are there so many time wasters on this site , people who contact you and then just play games. some of us here I hope are like me and really looking for someone!!

I'm I the only one here this is happening to, they contact you then they don't communicate, with you or have a conversation, trying to get there favourite food for coular out of the let alone what they do or like to do is impossible, why be on this site if they just want to play games.

dose this happen to anyone else??

It happens to everyone. All dating sites are full of scammers, which sucks. But there are real people here as well. I would recommend posting regularly in the forums. At least you know most people who take the time to post regularly are probably real.

Ofc unfortunately.

That's why I communicate manly with forum posters. Getting to know them, knowing them a bit better than randomly messaging.

Maybe read the threads in well wish forum about Bonnie and Mark. Two people met recently this site and are now getting married.
So it's possible to find realness, but my advice is post more on the forums. I can think of many matches for you here! Less pressure, more fun. Find someone you're attracted to, flirt...THEN message...

Good luck.

Edit: there she is! Hello Bonnie!!

1000% truth. realist thing i read on here was your bio lol. almost like adding my name to the call list for my cars extended warranty.

I always come across such people. I always let them know if I'm not interested. Then again, I'm always not interested in anyone lol

If you'd put ANYTHING in your profile you'd have better responses, don't give us much to go by.

1st time user. was a bit nervous posting too much info. seeing as sharks been chewing on my profile since i got here. lol my phone number used to be on profile... big whoops there. only here too appreciate the beauty that all ladies have.

There's a happy in-between. I usually don't read profiles with no about me.
I'll give you the same advice, post on the forums. Maybe start in the games forum, it is low pressure, gives you a chance to get to know others.
Find women you are attracted to, flirt, then message.

social media rookie here, if thats believable. had changed my phone number. helped a fake picture profile out with a gift card. my email has more explicit content than pornhub now. so im kinda wingin it. i had noticed that the profile reads similar to pumpilicious don't accept msgs...
not complaining, only sharing. lol serves me right, paying to meet lonely ladies in my area. wich i have to set at within 500 miles of me to see anyone. oh well, live and learn.

thank you.

Maybe staying off pornhub for awhile will help.

so basically what everyone is telling me is not to look for people. on the picture side of things . so how do I meet people then is this not a dating site?

Just like in the real life, there are many time wasters.