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SparklingCrystal πŸ’–πŸ’Ž

Thu 03/31/22 12:27 PM

I was just thinking... whenever we go out to dinner, or are asked for that, it's 7 at the earliest, but can also be 8 or maybe even later.

Now I don't normally eat that late, so whenever I go out to dinner I will have to eat something at home before I go. If not I will feel faint and as if I'm starving. Meaning when I get to a restaurant I eat fast because I'm so hungry, not really appreciating a good meal.
Or, in the case there's these small buns (usually at a pizza place) with herb & garlic butter, I stuff my face with those. Meaning I feel partly full with bread before my pizza arrives.

How's this for you? Do you normally eat at 7 or (much) later?

Do you have a problem eating later when you go out to dinner at 7 or 8 or whatnot?

And why don't we go out to dinner at 6? For me that's already a late dinner.


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Larsi666 😽

Thu 03/31/22 01:00 PM

I usually go out for dinner twice a year at the moment, which is when I visit my parents in Germany.

We prefer to go early ish, like 17:30 or thereabouts, because after 19:00, the restaurant we always go, is packed.
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Tom4Uhere

Thu 03/31/22 01:51 PM

Personally I don't eat dinner till about 6-6:30 pm.

7-8 pm is common for dinner on a date because by the time you finish dinner the nightlife is just getting started and its a direct route to the venue.

Dinner and movie (locally), depending upon which showing and after-movie activity dictates the time reserved for dinner.

Dinner while at a mass venue like a concert or carnival usually dictates an earlier dinner with an after-snack. High volume amusement parks usually have restaurants on the premises and may offer picnic areas as well.

I believe one should eat when they are hungry. If the time is important, tell your date you wish to eat earlier (or later). If reservations are needed, best to get that info out BEFORE the reservation is made. If the reservation is a surprise, find a small high protien snack to eat to take the edge off without filling up...peanuts, a small sammich or popcorn works. It keep the tummy from barking at ya and your date...embarassed

I try to keep a bag of peanuts in the vehicle for hunger pains. I used to keep mini crackers but eww, ever try to eat a stale cracker!
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Rock

Thu 03/31/22 02:21 PM

Going out to dinner in the evening...
8-ish, I'll normally order a small meal
for myself.

My normal evening meal time is somewhere
between 5:30 and 6:30.
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SparklingCrystal πŸ’–πŸ’Ž

Thu 03/31/22 03:08 PM


I usually go out for dinner twice a year at the moment, which is when I visit my parents in Germany.

We prefer to go early ish, like 17:30 or thereabouts, because after 19:00, the restaurant we always go, is packed.

That's about the time I like too, 17.30 or thereabouts :)
Indeed a good restaurant would be crowded later on. All the nutters who dine late, haha.
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SparklingCrystal πŸ’–πŸ’Ž

Thu 03/31/22 03:10 PM


Personally I don't eat dinner till about 6-6:30 pm.

7-8 pm is common for dinner on a date because by the time you finish dinner the nightlife is just getting started and its a direct route to the venue.

Dinner and movie (locally), depending upon which showing and after-movie activity dictates the time reserved for dinner.

Dinner while at a mass venue like a concert or carnival usually dictates an earlier dinner with an after-snack. High volume amusement parks usually have restaurants on the premises and may offer picnic areas as well.

I believe one should eat when they are hungry. If the time is important, tell your date you wish to eat earlier (or later). If reservations are needed, best to get that info out BEFORE the reservation is made. If the reservation is a surprise, find a small high protien snack to eat to take the edge off without filling up...peanuts, a small sammich or popcorn works. It keep the tummy from barking at ya and your date...embarassed

I try to keep a bag of peanuts in the vehicle for hunger pains. I used to keep mini crackers but eww, ever try to eat a stale cracker!
sick

That could indeed be a reason. But here if you'd want to go to a pub or music cafΓ© afterwards you'd have to wait a long time as pubs don't get going until midnight or even later.
Used to be different in the past, but I guess people now prefer to watch their favourite tv shows before they leave, hihi.

As for crackers, I always have a packet of Sultana's in my handbag for emergencies. There's 3 in a packet and it's plastic packet so never stale.
Edited by SparklingCrystal πŸ’–πŸ’Ž on Thu 03/31/22 03:12 PM
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SparklingCrystal πŸ’–πŸ’Ž

Thu 03/31/22 03:14 PM


Going out to dinner in the evening...
8-ish, I'll normally order a small meal
for myself.

My normal evening meal time is somewhere
between 5:30 and 6:30.

Amazing that you can wait with food so long, 8-ish!
I'd have to eat at home first to tide myself over, haha.
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Slim gym

Thu 03/31/22 03:19 PM

I get out of work around 5 and so my dinner plans have to have me eating by 630 latest ... so yeah reservations are made for 630 the latest.... this is always mutually agreed upon before hand .... works out good for all concerned ....
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Rock

Thu 03/31/22 03:23 PM



Going out to dinner in the evening...
8-ish, I'll normally order a small meal
for myself.

My normal evening meal time is somewhere
between 5:30 and 6:30.

Amazing that you can wait with food so long, 8-ish!
I'd have to eat at home first to tide myself over, haha.


Wait?
No.
If a dinner date doesn't start until 8,
I will have already eaten dinner at
5:30 or 6:30.
Hence, the small portions at the 8 dinner
date.

It may be our height. :wink:
But, like you, I can't go until 8
without food.
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Beachfarmer

Thu 03/31/22 03:45 PM

I am trying to adjust to a different way of eating for a trip I am planning.

My structure of diet has always revolved around daylight.

On the beach or on the farm it's always been about getting every last ride until the waves are no longer visible,,or....on a harvest crew it is dawn to dusk until you can't see the crops. It's all very American I'm afraid. I understand the huge breakfast part. Dinner is sociable but never understood the proportions. I know I am incredibly hungry after working or surfing but should not make that manner of eating a habit when not burning the fuel. That is why Americans are so obese.

I'm convinced that even if Tapas til 2AM isn't necessarily a more healthy way (which I think it is)....it will absolutely be better nourishment for the soul!!!!
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SparklingCrystal πŸ’–πŸ’Ž

Thu 03/31/22 03:58 PM




Going out to dinner in the evening...
8-ish, I'll normally order a small meal
for myself.

My normal evening meal time is somewhere
between 5:30 and 6:30.

Amazing that you can wait with food so long, 8-ish!
I'd have to eat at home first to tide myself over, haha.


Wait?
No.
If a dinner date doesn't start until 8,
I will have already eaten dinner at
5:30 or 6:30.
Hence, the small portions at the 8 dinner
date.

It may be our height. :wink:
But, like you, I can't go until 8
without food.

Hihi, could be, although you'd tower over me! 1.96m-ish if memory serves.
I'd love a man that tall, if only my neck could handle that... grumble tears

But it's a good way of doing things, isn't it: eating at home before you go, hihi.
Edited by SparklingCrystal πŸ’–πŸ’Ž on Thu 03/31/22 04:13 PM
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SparklingCrystal πŸ’–πŸ’Ž

Thu 03/31/22 04:08 PM


I am trying to adjust to a different way of eating for a trip I am planning.

My structure of diet has always revolved around daylight.

On the beach or on the farm it's always been about getting every last ride until the waves are no longer visible,,or....on a harvest crew it is dawn to dusk until you can't see the crops. It's all very American I'm afraid. I understand the huge breakfast part. Dinner is sociable but never understood the proportions. I know I am incredibly hungry after working or surfing but should not make that manner of eating a habit when not burning the fuel. That is why Americans are so obese.

I'm convinced that even if Tapas til 2AM isn't necessarily a more healthy way (which I think it is)....it will absolutely be better nourishment for the soul!!!!

Big breakfast, dinner at lunchtime and light meal in the evening is best I believe?
But I'm not one for a big breakfast, and if I have dinner for lunch I'm going to be incredibly grumpy later on when having to eat bread for dinner.
I'm too attached to my warm food for dinner, not much of a bread eater, to switch that round.

I only eat a bigger breakfast when in England, which unfortunately isn't all that often (bacon & eggs!!!YUM haha, but then forego the baked beans and sausages. Tad too much)

I think obesity in the USA is because most everything has corn syrup in it? And also the size of portions is out of proportion. Humungous meals that would feed me for 3 days, not kidding. And stuff like mac & cheese, so unhealthy! I couldn't eat it, hihi just the thought of it makes me gag.
Mac & cheese is being pushed here of late too btw.
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SparklingCrystal πŸ’–πŸ’Ž

Thu 03/31/22 04:10 PM


I get out of work around 5 and so my dinner plans have to have me eating by 630 latest ... so yeah reservations are made for 630 the latest.... this is always mutually agreed upon before hand .... works out good for all concerned ....

Sounds reasonable :)
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catinidaho

Thu 03/31/22 04:13 PM

Eating dinner out at 7 or 8:00 at night seems to be the normal thing, if you live in a big city. I don't live in a city. I would go out 5 or 6:00 if it were up to me. I'm also a morning person, so I'm up early.
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Beachfarmer

Thu 03/31/22 04:44 PM

laugh Yes High Fructose Toast in
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Oh HELL NAW!!! ^^^^^^^ For Sissies!!!

MERICAN PROPORTIONS!!!! and DOUBLE SIZE IT!!!!


blushing and a diet coke please.
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Tom4Uhere

Thu 03/31/22 09:33 PM

I am trying to adjust to a different way of eating for a trip I am planning.

I used to do lots of long road trips.
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I used to snack on trail mix (a bag between my legs) kept the hunger at bay but also helped with staying awake.

I didn't drink much tho. Too many bathroom stops.
I kept a small cooler on the passenger seat with a couple bottles of gator-aid under ice. A few small coffee stops if I felt tired or highway hypnosis coming on.
No sugar sodas or teas with sugar.
No candy bars or potato chips (crisps) but sometimes I would snack on pretzel rods.

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Blondey111

Thu 03/31/22 11:23 PM

I don’t have a problem eating late . Hopefully dinner is just the start of the fun rather than the main event biggrin waving
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Poetrywriter

Fri 04/01/22 09:46 AM

I go out to eat every day since I do not cook. I usually get to a restaurant before 3pm since I want to beat the usual dinner crowd that shows up anytime after 4pm. I am not a crowd person so the less the crowd the better.
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Unknow

Fri 04/01/22 03:12 PM

I never get home from work until 7 at the earliest, so no chance of me ever going out for dinner!