Having difficulty finding the right one - Free Chat, Mobile Dating Forums

Topic: Having difficulty finding the right one

Kay

Thu 04/07/22 02:48 PM

I mostly text about 20 ladies just to get a reply from 1, they either want me to be older or be in their area, but I have a cool age, most ladies I chat here won’t chat anymore ones I say I will have a video call with them to confirm their pictures agains what’s on video, I guess those are scammers. Mostly those who are willing to text are scammers and I won’t fall for that so that leaves me with no luck here.. now I want real ladies who are interested to find me and text but ladies never text first, I’m wondering if I’m not good looking enough to find love, distance isn’t a problem

CremeBrulee

Fri 04/08/22 05:48 AM

Well,
personally,am cautious about people i see online as should everyone!
Lots of scammers expected.
Real ladies might not txt first...just to see one goes an extra mile.
But mainly,people are a bit too fleeting as there's a load of people to "choose" from....easily scrolls to the next profile. :information_desk_person:

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Larsi666 😽

Fri 04/08/22 06:01 AM

Let's start with the most important rule:

Mutual Match or Who viewed me are NOT the main part of Mingle. These are only wee games. The forums are the main part. This is were you can connect with plenty of decent people :thumbsup:

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Fri 04/08/22 06:39 AM

SparklingCrystal 💖💎

Fri 04/08/22 07:32 AM

Well... get a good profile. Yours isn't good.
All photos are the same, the 2nd is lord knows what.
Maybe try showing your entire face and smile.

Remove the nonsense that you cannot see likes. You can. Create some good text. Google if you don't know what that looks like.

Women might also be suspicious because you are looking for older women. Why? Do you have a job? Often it's about wanting to be a kept man. Make sure your profile is clear on that.

And... I do NOT go to video to prove to some man who's still a stranger that I'm for real. To me that's the fast route to the man being kicked to the curb. I don't have an interest in men with trust issues.
And I do NOT go to video real soon, not until there is some kind of bond and sense that the man is genuinely interested. Otherwise I could make it a fulltime job to video chat with males. Too time consuming. It's a privilege for someone that has potential.