this site is just a big scam. most of the profiles here are obvious fakes. fhe sight itself tries to scam you with fake matches which you must pay to see. I would gladly pay to use a legitimately honest site but mingle is not even close to honest.
it's like that everywhere.
The most you use the site, the more you can spot the fakes.
I had my first coffee date from here a few days ago, so there's definitely real people on here. what I do is get to know the person online for a week or so, get their number and I call them, blocking out my number. I like to actually talk to someone over the phone first to get a feel for them.
