We split up about a year and a half ago!! I was so devastated cause I never expected it, I’m 55 years old and I never thought that I would have to start over at my age!! I was never told why or what happened and she blocked me on everything!!! We were best friends at least I thought we were !!! I guess she thought the grass was greener in someone else’s field!! She hasn’t found anyone yet but she’s been on plenty of dates !! I just don’t get what changed her mind after 24 years together!!! I would do anything to get back together with her!! As for myself I haven’t dated anyone in all that time cause I know how hard it would be to find someone like her !! Also when I was asked to leave our house two days before Christmas!!! Do you think she was cheating on me ?? The scary part is it took her no time to go out and date after I left !! All I ask is it worth pursuing her or just move on like she did, and is there any chance she will realize what she’s done and try and get back together!!! If anyone has advice for me I surly would appreciate it !! And maybe some help in trying to get her back !!!

I think there’s probably more to the story than what you’re sharing. If she kicked you out she probably gave you a reason, right? Try taking what she told you at face value instead of looking for more. And even if there is more, does it really matter at this point? It’s been a year and a half. If she doesn’t want to be with you, you need to respect that and move on.

Hope can heal from the hurt and find what you’re looking for.

It's past due time that you move on. Have some self respect.

The time she kicked you out, says a lot. Two days before Christmas? How more hurtful can a person be ...

And she wants you to be hurt, she wants you to be desperate.

It might sound hard, but such a person does not deserve your company. Please move on.