She occasionally has heart problems, blood thinners and they cannot get the viscosity right so she has to test herself often, which she then doesn't do or forgets etc. And every time it's too thick or too thin. Bloody dangerous!
Twice she had to go to hospital with ambulance because of heart/blood viscosity in the middle of the night.
Once she fell.
Now 4 days again she fell ago before going to bed. She doesn't know why, says she didn't get dizzy, bent over for some reason she cannot remember, and then she completely past out.
When she came to she couldn't move, took her nearly 2 our to get to the hallway while on the floor still. Why she did that I don't know as she has an alarm to press for immediate help.
In the end she did that, police came over, had to ram down the door, ambulance people had great difficulty getting her up.
Nothing broken but she's bruised all over and can barely move around. Thank goodness she had her walker upstairs, usually it's in the downstairs storage/shed.
In any case, I told my daughter yesterday and both her and my son in law immediately reacted I had to do something. That she can no longer live this way by herself in the apartment building. I agreed, but I know my mum and I feared talking to her about it.
She also has issues with her mobile which she cannot sort (beyond her wheelhouse) so currently no one can phone her, but she can phone herself.
Very unpleasant situation as I had to wait for updates on Facebook.
She phoned earlier around noon to tell me she's okay. Big relief.
I wanted to address the issue of her moving, as we want her to move closer to us which means another province and area.
I decided to be bold, and I just told her that Monday I was going to phone about that to see what's possible concerning her moving closer to us. I didn't ask. Just told her.
And...
She was happy!?!?! She really wants to be closer to us and was very enthusiastic about it!?
It'd be the in between version for the elderly, not a home, but a cosy small apartment complex for the elderly with care facilities and alarm system in the apartments. In the town centre close to shops.
She was SO happy!
I think she actually may have wanted this for a longer time but feared we didn't want this?
And she said she was afraid we'd move away from here. But we have been living here for 20 years and my kids are not going to leave this province. I may at some point, don't know, but I'm not going far -if I go- as I want to be close to my own kids and grandchild!
ANywho, I think she was relieved. She said she liked that I was going to do this. She was truly pleased?! So I think she thought of it before but didn't know where to begin with it all. And now I just took control, meaning she doesn't have to worry about it.
Now fingers crossed I can get it sorted since she then has to get a place here while she's from another province. Wait and see.
But I'm going to do my darndest to make it happen!!
And I helped her fix her phone while we were on the phone so she can now access internet and WhatsApp again. Turned out she'd accidentally switched that off herself.
In the past she could easily do these things herself but she's getting more forgetful with the years, even though she's only 79, and less and less computer savvy like she used to be. She doesn't seem to understand anything much anymore of the things that she normally did herself until a few years ago.
But now she doesn't really understand how Facebook, WhatsApp etc work anymore, while she's been on it for yonks.
ANywho, when internet was back on on her mobile, she immediately got messages from all kinds of people and she was SO HAPPY!
I think I seriously made her day today, haha.
I also told her to check her blood.
"Yes, but I feel fine, I can always feel that."
Yeah, right. Like when you just past out? Check your blood!!
"Yes boss."
Lol. Hope she did it.
Kinda funny my mum suddenly is open to me taking control. New one on me.
Happy I dared to be bold!
Edited by
SparklingCrystal ππ
on Sat 08/20/22 07:09 AM