Not An Assumption .... It's a Just request.
Anyway it's not a big issue... Keep Going with your beautiful writings.
Stay Happy and Stay blessed.
I've moulded myself into a person what I am now, after going through lots, so nothing affects me nor makes me lose my identity just because you judged me incorrectly n telling that it's a request, I know myself!
I should not go to a person n say that he/she is considering looks so I'm not considered by them. It means that I'm putting myself in a lesser place n making the other person to think that I'm not good in looks. Everyone is created in God's own creation, we shouldn't be rude to ourselves by comparing us based on looks.
We should love the way we look, it's our uniqueness! we should build ourselves with confidence first n keep upgrading our thoughts with wisdom through our life experiences.. Looks may not be the same as in age 20s but the thoughts we share, the respect we give, the efforts we put in to understand someone, the character we build to converse with a person by conveying our points without hurting/insulting/judging or assuming them incorrectly.. All these help building us on who we are n how we have improved to be a better person..
There are numerous reasons for each one to have their own preferences here, it shouldn't mean that you are thought as lesser in looks and this is not the reason for not conversing with you.. Hope you understand my views!
Thankyou for your blessings
Wishing you the best of days in your life