I've been struggling with online dating for a few months now. I don't think the best parts of me really shine in an online format. I make great impressions in person, but between work, flights, and my wilderness adventures it's hard to meet new people. That and I don't do much partying, so my opportunities are limited. This site is more welcoming than others, and it has more of a community vibe which I like, but by and large, it's a similar experience to elsewhere. I get TONS of likes and whatnot from people who aren't who they claim to be, or are clearly looking for an only fans simp lol. I wish you luck though. At the very least there's forums here for you to explore and regulars to get to know.
Good Luck Susan!
wish you all the best