In a way it shouldn't make much of a difference aside from legal matters.
But then... most people come with a past and many haven't worked through that properly.
Many men say they don't want to get married again because they never healed from a past relationship and they don't ever want to get that involved again. This does mean they aren't fully committing anymore, too risky so they keep an exit door open. This will then affect your 'just stay loyal and together forever'.
Too many men get involved without truly committing but only because it is easier. Free sex, company so no more loneliness, someone who cooks & cleans, etc. All without him really committing to the woman who usually does fully commit and is unaware he's not fully in it.
So when it comes to getting married you could deduct both are equally involved otherwise they -esp the man- wouldn't take that step.
People with a healed and thus open heart have no issue with committing and making this official as they're not thinking about "if it doesn't work out again, bladibla..."
They love themselves, the other, and intent to stay together forever.
Being loyal, capable of a healthy relationship, staying together forever, means you got to be willing to take a risk. With a healed and open heart you don't focus on the risk but on love, sharing, committing, forever, etc. Then marriage is an option too.
Edited by
SparklingCrystal 💖💎
on Mon 11/28/22 03:37 AM