I know this is going to be long.
Maybe my relationship was rare - but yes love without sex is most definitely possible.
I loved a man that was my first love and I his last. That's something special that lasted 32 years.
There was incurable diseases that caused us to seek other ways to create that bond and they were the best years of my life. Hands down better than sex, so my next person will have to step it up.
We learned companionship is everything, affection is also important, You still can have touching, kissing, holding each other every night, holding hands, massages with happy endings (m personal favorite),use toys, saying I love you everyday,eye contact, mental stimulation, watching movies and spending quality time with your person that's what I want again.
To be seen, heard, respected, valued and know you come first. No matter what that's your ride or die bltch until you take your last breath. Loyality is more then not cheating, being emotionally available for your person, loyal in all aspects of the word.
You need to communicate your wants and needs. working through the hurt feelings and disappointments is needed without cheating, Remember god gave you have a mouth,a tongue, 10 glorious fingers and ten toes, use them wisely you'll become the master ..lol Tune ups are necessary and appreciated. That feeling that no matter what your person has your back, That's love.
Edited by
Gia
on Sun 02/12/23 12:58 AM