every situation is different
Consider the environment where you are getting your samples.
Virtual presence is not the same as actually being there, face to face.
Sadly, 'the phone' has become a substitution for real-life encounters.
In real-life encounters you have many signals which are lost in a virtual encounter. The lil things do add up.
Its really difficult to find any REAL connection without experiencing each other live and in-person.
There are many who hold their inner feelings close and display 'toughness' as a protection defense.
This virtual connection becomes a ruse-play which causes people to be able to lie with ease. Actors make the best liars.
Knowing this, its obvious the only way to find someone worthy of love is to actually meet them face to face and spend unscripted time with them.
You pick one and put yourself in their path.
If you are busy filling your plate with many possibles, you won't have time or the dedication needed to develop a connection with one.
Relationships are personal. Phones, texting and social networking is not. To have and hold a relationship you both have to get personal, intimate, let down those guards, show your honest self.
In today's world, its a very difficult thing for some people to do.
Who can you safely expose the real you to? Who can you trust? Certainly not just anyone.