I think the beautyfull Moments we have in live don't exist in this world money can payment? I like to see another opinions what really metter?

I would only ever marry because I had fallen in love with the person, that is really what matters in my opinion, and not how wealthy they may be.

Think of The Beatles song “Money can’t buy me love” and even Jesus says that above all love is the most important thing in all things.

Love does not buy Belmal love comes with happiness

Yeah love and happiness is nice, but I'd rather have a few million dollars in my bank

I guess people tend to romanticize love without money. You can have just love, but once the daily life problems come, you will have to have a strong foundation in this relationship, or it will break. You see, for a woman, it is not an aspect of interest (of course there are woman and man that looks for the interest), but in a neurological and evolutive aspect, women search security. Marriage is secure, having not only money, but responsibility over management, future plans and dreams that shown a little bit of ambition, means that this man can protect me and my future family. More or less like this. So I would say, it is one of the most important aspects of a long lasting relationship. Besides, having enough money means one less reason for fighting, i guess?

While I can understand your sentiments Micaela, it has more significance when you are young and wanting to start a family with someone.
Money is important but money is not the root cause of fighting, merely a symptom.

Fighting usually begins when there is a lack of honest communication in the relationship. Violating honesty tends to destroy trust and for a relationship to work you must trust one another fully.

Money, when you have plenty, is not the issue. What happens if money gets tight? Financial difficulties affect the inner self worth. When self-esteem takes a hit, we not only lie to others, we tend to lie to ourselves.

This is because we haven't mastered our own self-esteem and inner worth. We rely on money (wealth) to prop up our contentment.

For most of my life (including my 25 year marriage) I was high middle class, single income.
Having raised 4 children on a single income presented money issues which were handled by making sure I knew my priorities.
That my family always comes first.
We raised our children in a loving home.
I couldn't afford everything I wanted but we did pretty good.

My divorce was not money, it was a trust issue.

I've been disabled for over 10 years now. I make 1/4th the income I once had. I manage my money using the wisdom my life has given me.
I keep my priorities inline with my limitations and I have plenty of money for myself, which includes a girlfriend.

I've dated women who focus on money and they never seem content, even when there is plenty of money to live.
To me, they suffer from delusions about self-worth. Usually accompanied by self-esteem issues.
My GF is the opposite of that.

Its important to note we both have already had children, already experienced marriage and we both have experienced money issues in our lives.

I agree money is important for living but so is love. However, what is more important than both is how we manage ourselves.
Inner contentment.

Inner contentment is a result of self honesty and self respect. For a relationship to truly work, I believe you must be in control of your self.
That inner self-control and honesty allows you to make wise decisions which in turn, bring love and wealth.

I once was with a guy who had a lot of money, and he failed to impress me. I would rather be with a poor man, who respected himself, and those around him. Rich lad taught me nothing. Hence why I'm not with him anymore.

Is so gratefull read and see diferents points and opiniones about that to diferents Friends who had Bad experiences( sorry for that) but is true in this Bad times we are coming love are something who some people don't whant fell and now the questions Friends. Were we go whit out love?

We all need money to survive and let’s not pretend we don’t like our little luxuries.
When it becomes avaricious is when it becomes off-putting, for me anyway.

That is correct but whant happen how u said when that be come avaricious that broken the soul and eyes only see that or not?

Men want love, women want money

For myself, money gives me a sense of security...

And love... Well if you had the real deal then you will know it's priceless, beyond the value of money...

Same person, 2 different profiles Who are you trying to fool?

I notice a lot of first-time posters start a thread and then a few other first-time posters will respond. Like we don’t know it’s the same person.

She has another profile with the same person in the profile pics, but different poses. This one claims to be in Jakarta, Indonesia, and the other profile is in Kuala Lumpur, Malaysia

I love bacon, cherry coke, and Winston cigarettes.

Old Joke:

Wife: "You just married me just because my grandfather left me a lot of money!

Husband: "That's where you're wrong, honey--I would've still married you--no matter WHO left you the money!"

I would marry for love and I did. However, the one I fell in love with had a good job. I wouldn't marry a man that was lazy and not a hard worker.
You cannot live on affection alone.



Young People under 40 may think differently. Later find out what happen.