question of the day: do you prefer small talk or deep conversation when chatting privately to someone
If I wanted to know the weather I would look outside or check my app.
If you ask somebody how they are doing most often they will lie. If they are having a bad day they will say they are OK, if they are having a great day they will say they are doing GOOD. That is unless they like drama, or want somebody to feel sorry for them.
Please don't ask if that dress makes you look fat ( no, it's your fat that makes you look fat)
If you have to ask somebody if they love you then you should focus on what they do, not what they say.
Thank you for holding the door, well you should have done that anyway, but I will thank you anyway because everybody deserves a participation award.