A young girl who was about to go on a 1st date with her boyfriend was been tutored by her grandma. "He will try to kiss you, allow him.
He will try to cuddle you, allow him.
He will try to lay you down and get on top of you, DONT ALLOW HIM!!!"
The girl asked, "Grandma, why?" Grandma said, "Because if you do that, you have allowed him to disgrace you and all your family." Girl said, "Okay"
And left on her date. Several hours later she returned and grandma asked, "How did it go?"
Girl said, "Exactly as you said except when he laid me down and tried to disgrace our family, I turned him over, got on top of him and disgraced his family."