Hello and welcome to Mingle. I think I manifested more widows to the forum. Joking, but it’s nice to see a few more widows here.
My suggestion is just write a few more positive things about yourself as a friend. (interests, hobbies, What you’re passionate about, pets, etc) It can be anything. As a widow myself I know these things can be hard. People would ask me what my favourite food is and I’d list his favourites without realizing it. Someone wanted to cook for me. He ask what my favourite food was and without thinking I said Cabbage Rolls. Such a bad first date food and it’s not my favourite. Lol Can you imagine what he was thinking, plus the hours to make it. Lol You get my point. If this is all you can write it’s fine. I took my profile down and still get a lot of replies. I think it’s the picture… I don’t know how many times I’m asked if I’m wearing clothes and I am. Lol
As a widow, I have to give a little advice without jading your own experience - I won’t say to much. Just be cautious. some people will pretend to be friends (fake friends and pleasure seekers). Be firm with your boundaries.
With that being said, I’ve met some amazing people here. My suggestion is stick to the forum - there’s a lot of good people here. All the ladies are amazing and the guys aren’t bad either. Lol