So, I just don’t know how to wrap my mind around this. He states he loves me and is obsessed with me, then when the military makes us go long distance, I catch him on all sorts of dating sites. (Yes, I’m on here, but only specifically for friends and to meet people since I’m new to the area.) He once said that he loves me and is attracted to me, but that our conversation gets bland and he wants excitement. He even countered that we could open our marriage up?!? Man, I guess I’m here to just vent cause I wouldn’t mind having another man/woman to treat me well, especially when he doesn’t… but the thought of him with another just makes my blood boil.
Love and play are different things. He loves you but he wants to play. When he was close to you how much did he love to play with you. How long will it take before he lifts you up..look straight in your eyes..or do more with you. If he is that kind of a man just know he loves to play and understand him. He might no be even getting ontop but he just want to brush lonileness away.
Are you always there to talk to him whenever he wants to. Maybe just check what have changed about you which you need to go back and be