I'm with you Gravel. If it is about trends then with a little attention on "design history" or the "theory of clothing" there was a time when various items were considered "inappropriate/ taboo" for women:
- pants
- jeans
- sheer blouses
- bikinis
etc.
Women used to be fined for wearing such items and I haven't even ventured into hemlines or hairstyles.
Tattoos nowadays are no different in terms of how a person chooses to express themselves. It has more to do with a taste level/ subjectivity more than anything else.
It's okay not to be a contemporary of the times, the zeitgeist is not everyone.
I agree that nowadays it is how a person express themselves. But it's a ridiculous way because at the end of the day - art is subjective.
I think along with taste, and subjectivity - you missed an important one when it comes to women... attitude.
Women that are covered with tattoos are
no different than what they do with their hair, clothes, etc. They do it for attention. But with tattoos in particular it conveys a rebellious nature and a non traditional attitude, so if she's looking for a mate - she better not be looking for a traditional man, because a traditional man will be looking for a traditional woman.
I only say this because I believe for the most part, women are looking for a traditional man - or should be! Unless they want to be the protecting bread winners and want to pursue the men and pay for the first dates, but I haven't come across many of those.
The rebellious thing now (for people in my area) is for people having no tattoos! Sexy AF!
Now that is the biggest crock of chit men keep telling themselves.
Any man who thinks and tells this nonsense to others doesn't understand women at all.
When I put on my make-up, have my hair cut, put on a skirt or whatever it is... I do it for
me myself and I and no one else!
For some people -female AND male- grooming might be a required boost for their self-confidence (which is still not the same as attention-seeking).
But for others who do not lack self-confidence it's about loving & caring about yourself. Feeling you are worthy. And that's an inside job, has nothing whatsoever to do with getting attention. Attention doesn't create self-confidence and self-love.
That's why you can wear a jute bag, no make-up or anything, and still be attractive when you exude self-confidence and self-love etc.
You also seem to forget the fact that many men need way more time than any woman to get ready to go out. Men can be incredibly vain, -or maybe it's insecurity...