Oh boy, definitely listen to your intuition on that one, Crystal.
Even the healthiest of people need time to go solo after a break-up/divorce. It's almost been a year for me and I've only just recently started getting back to my true self. Now that that's happened, I want to explore me a while longer before inviting someone else into my life.
Plus with Venus going retrograde in less than a month, starting something new isn't in the stars, so to speak, haha. I'll gladly wait a few more months to make sure not to carry old baggage/patterns into new beginnings with a love relationship. Let Venus work her magic.
Hopefully the next one will be more promising for you.
Oh yes, Venus Rx...
I'm certain Spirit stopped me from jumping into this situation and had me doubt, question, etc. to protect me.
I've made very clear to Spirit I do not want another connection that's doomed to fail or another 'lesson' relationship. Done with that! Then I'd rather stay single.
I only want the right connection for me. I'm ready for that, worthy of it, looking forward to it!
Obviously Spirit is on my side, agreeing with me on this one.
And yup, it takes time. I remember when I was in that place after my divorce. Someone said I was going through rebound.
I felt he was nuts! But in retrospect he was dead on!
You simply cannot escape it, nor should one try as it's a natural process. You need it if you want to get 'whole' again.
Glad to hear you're back to your old self!
I too took my time to heal, and after that to enjoy being me!
I still celebrate my relationship with me. It's the most important one in life.
In any case, enjoy your 'me' time!
Edited by
SparklingCrystal 💖💎
on Sat 06/24/23 04:33 AM