OMG I just cannot believe what I am reading so I am going to be blunt!
Look in a mirror and ask yourself a very simple question.
Would a young vivacious and sexy 22 year old be interested in me?
And your answer is?
I know of people that have paid dowries to marry young Asian girls, and you can see them walking along a street and you can see the girls are not very happy, but they are stuck in a life they never wanted, desired or wished for!
Would you do this to somebody! Ruin their life because of personal vanity! Ohh look at me I have a young girl on my arm I bet all other men are jealous now.
Stop chasing dreams and start living in reality!
I've spent a lot of time in SE Asia and you can bet your *** all those young women you seem to think are being taken advantage of are actually the ones taking advantage of the older men. These men are not "ruining" their lives and, in fact, these "ruined" ladies are going to GREAT EFFORTS to find these Western men to ENHANCE their lives, not "ruin" it. For many, their only other choice is living far away in the province working on the farm until they die broke like their mom and dad did. Don't kid yourself. The REAL reality is these girls hit gold when they con these guys into believing the relationship is more than just money and they are willing to play the long game to get it. I wouldn't feel too sorry for them if I were you.
Edited by
Mr Good Guy
on Wed 01/01/25 07:34 PM