Crystal, you are thinking of romance novels, not reality.
Not unless you wish to call science & psychology a romance novel, hihi.
What I am telling is reality.
It never ceases to surprise me how little people know and understand of how we 'work' when it comes to relationships.
When you explain them -still in understandable language- they get all awkward, sometimes nasty even, and dismissive.
That's in general, not talking about you, so don't take offense.
But this subject is what I've studied to great length, still do,-and even taught courses about.
All what I'm saying is based on hormonal workings and psychology, aka science...
This knowledge has been out there for decades yet hardly anyone knows about it! Even in spite of thousands being single and could benefit greatly from it.
That's what I find weird, but alas.
You're actually right. I've learned that women - can find the same man sexy and repulsive, depending on their cycle.
Evolutionary psychologist Sarah Hill wrote a book about the unintended consequences of the birth control pill. One of the unintended consequences I recall, is the pill tricks a woman into being attracted to a guy that she may not be attracted to, when she comes off the pill. The synthetic drugs that trick their body into thinking it's pregnant really messes with the natural order of a woman
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bobtail76
on Sat 03/30/24 11:18 AM