It's not for me, wouldn't make me happy.
I want the whole enchilada to be and feel fulfilled.
I think for Lat relationship to work both would have to love each other as much to begin with so both have an equal desire to spend time together.
I also think many choose for this form because deep down they're afraid to open up fully as they've been hurt before.
It can be -and I suspect often is- a form of relationship to keep the other at arm's length and to maintain a built-in safety in case it goes wrong.
But having that sense of 'in case it goes wrong (again)' is not a healthy premise in a relationship.
Since some ask abut this... I have once read of a married couple who had a LAT relationship.
There's no reason you cannot choose this form
and get married as well.
But it wouldn't work for me.
Edited by
SparklingCrystal 💖💎
on Sun 02/25/24 02:31 AM