If the older women think of themselves as cougars, to attract younger guys , they better have assets, otherwise they are just stray cats... IMO
that's so not true slim.. every guy I've ever dated (and even married) was younger.. it was unintentional.. I guess I just give off that "mommy" vibe
Dont take it personally ...but a younger guy is always looking for the assets first ..... how do I know this ....I am a guy ..
And you certainly have assets... a house, a garden , a shed in the backyard, friends in high place, a snow blower etc etc ....so yeah, I wouldnt dream of calling you a stray cat......
And women always have options to make good or bad decisions....like any man does !!
When talking about other Westerners this is not true at all.
I haven't owned a house etc. for decades yet lots of younger men were and are interested in me.
It has to do with being more confident as a woman and in that sense being way more attractive. When you turn 40 -approx- you know who you are, what you stand for and what you're worth.
That self-confidence is sexy and appealing and it's is what attracts younger men.
How do I know... experience!