Hiya Toody,
Mmmmm I don't drive, and I can find it difficult to go for an inter-city date.
I've caught a train in the past to another city, but I can see that having a driving licence / car is a definite plus...
Oh by the way, my time keeping is atrocious oops...
I do believe it is a deal breaker for Some Women no matter if she is Older or Young.
I have dated a Man in my area who was one of the nicest Men I known! This was Yrs ago and he did not drive was gainly employed and went out to other places! I never liked he did not drive!! He also gave money on gas sometimes.
Point is some Men do not get dates because of NO driving! It does not matter if you Older or Younger Men.
Often Expectations are what keeps people Single who would like to have a Nice Partner in Dating or serious relationships.
Many Men have Unrealistic Expectations and that is a Personal Choice. So do not be surprised when you on a Dating site or More than One and never get a Date inperson.