Instant Spark or Slow Burn — What Works for You? - Free Chat, Mobile Dating Forums

Topic: Instant Spark or Slow Burn — What Works for You?

Rita

Thu 07/17/25 05:30 PM

Do you think real chemistry happens right away, or does it build over time?

Ever had a connection that hit fast — or one that started slow and turned out amazing?

Just curious what works best for you. Let’s talk

motowndowntown

Thu 07/17/25 09:14 PM

Instant deactivation.

PeterB

Fri 07/18/25 06:17 AM

Deactivated or not, she raised a valid question.

motowndowntown

Fri 07/18/25 08:28 AM

But obviously not very curious about the answers.

Not very able to talk about the subject.

And no doubt deactivated for a reason.

PeterB

Fri 07/18/25 02:31 PM

But obviously not very curious about the answers.

Not very able to talk about the subject.

And no doubt deactivated for a reason.

All true. However, other people may want to discuss the subject.

motowndowntown

Fri 07/18/25 09:28 PM

So if you want to talk about the subject, be my guest and go for it instead of constantly whining about what I post.

SparklingCrystal 💖💎

Sat 07/19/25 02:11 AM

It doesn't matter whether it's fast or slow. It can go either way.
What does matter is that it works and lasts.

For me when it's slow there has to be something that sets it aside from platonic friendship. I do not hang out with a bloke for friendship since I'm not looking for a male friend.

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