Now here is the thing women ,when a man sees you are the kind that's looking for a fun and exotic life yet claiming for are looking for a serious relationship,the fact is that your interests ,the question you ask and the demands you make even in a 1day relationship you are already asking for money and choosing exotic and very expensive places to be taken out that's it's selfs raise red flags to a man and in return he plays the kind of man that can get into your pants, but the thing is

men must also understand that women that are mature and real look for a vision, character, religious or spiritual connection, family mindset and what's your attitude when you are in error and how you will treat them,Above all a woman is looking for a father and a friend in a man ,and such women are the ones who will love you for you and nothing else , Majority of men have lost great relationships because they followed sex and not the heart ,when women know are just after sex they start to distance themselves,and the more she walks away the more beautiful she looks ,because men are blind when they have a Great woman and that's why a lot have become obsessed and abusive when they realize this cause there intention where all towards sex and not life and her true nature.
But Love doesn't cost a thing when two people genuinely give π€themselves to being together,they learn to sacrifice, compromise, forgive and understand,love is free when two are decided because they are a as long as we are together mentality and help each other genuinely.
especially career women,must under that being bossy to a man chases him away.