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Here'sDino

Tue 01/13/26 04:47 AM

Has online dating run it's course, or do people still have big expectations?

I personally believe it has, most, in my experience are just wanting someone to chat with instead of going into the real world, each to their own I guess :thinking::rose:🕺
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Rai Sahil

Tue 01/13/26 09:11 AM

please koi friend bana do
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Here'sDino

Tue 01/13/26 09:19 AM

What:confused:
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motowndowntown

Tue 01/13/26 12:26 PM


please koi friend bana do


It's Hindi. He want's to be friends.
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Here'sDino

Tue 01/13/26 01:06 PM

How are you Mowtown, it's been a while, I hope all good :beers:
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Zero_Effected

Tue 01/13/26 02:43 PM


Has online dating run it's course, or do people still have big expectations?

I personally believe it has, most, in my experience are just wanting someone to chat with instead of going into the real world, each to their own I guess :thinking::rose:🕺


I think it's 50/50 really.. I'd prefer real world connections but it's hard to achieve when you live in the boonies, so.. jumped back in the pond to see if there's any bites (fishing reference laugh)
so far I've had 111 like me in 3 days.. mostly scammers I'd wager smelling new blood yawn
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Here'sDino

Tue 01/13/26 04:16 PM



Has online dating run it's course, or do people still have big expectations?

I personally believe it has, most, in my experience are just wanting someone to chat with instead of going into the real world, each to their own I guess :thinking::rose:🕺


I think it's 50/50 really.. I'd prefer real world connections but it's hard to achieve when you live in the boonies, so.. jumped back in the pond to see if there's any bites (fishing reference laugh)
so far I've had 111 like me in 3 days.. mostly scammers I'd wager smelling new blood yawn
Yes I can relate to that, especially out in 'boonies' :blush:
Scammers are rife here, and on most dating sites I guess, pity as it ruins the experience for sincere people.. Happy New to ya anyway :wink::beers:🥳
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Michael

Tue 01/13/26 06:29 PM

No, I don't think that dating sites have run their course.

The biggest problem is that most dating sites want to make money. So, those site really do not concentrate on trying to connect two people together. A couple months ago Match Group got fined by the FTC for 14 million dollars for cheating their users.

To make a dating site successful, you would need to:

1. Have a questionnaire to determine their personality type and match them to the right personality. There are 18 personality types. It is a challenge to create a questionnaire that would correctly select the correct personality. Without "chemistry" there will not be a relationship. This is the downfall of most sites. eharmony is the closest to do this. But, their site is very expensive and they do not have enough users.

2. Sites need to get rid of bots, scammers, etc without blocking real people. It is possible, but it takes work. two factor authentication is a very good start.

3. People need to spend more time building a good profile. Sites need to help people with that process. Whenever I see an empty or almost empty profile I reject them. Not going to waste time on someone who is not serious.
Edited by Michael on Tue 01/13/26 06:31 PM
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Here'sDino

Tue 01/13/26 08:08 PM


No, I don't think that dating sites have run their course.

The biggest problem is that most dating sites want to make money. So, those site really do not concentrate on trying to connect two people together. A couple months ago Match Group got fined by the FTC for 14 million dollars for cheating their users.

To make a dating site successful, you would need to:

1. Have a questionnaire to determine their personality type and match them to the right personality. There are 18 personality types. It is a challenge to create a questionnaire that would correctly select the correct personality. Without "chemistry" there will not be a relationship. This is the downfall of most sites. eharmony is the closest to do this. But, their site is very expensive and they do not have enough users.

2. Sites need to get rid of bots, scammers, etc without blocking real people. It is possible, but it takes work. two factor authentication is a very good start.

3. People need to spend more time building a good profile. Sites need to help people with that process. Whenever I see an empty or almost empty profile I reject them. Not going to waste time on someone who is not serious.
Thanks for input, I agree most of it :ok_hand:
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Zero_Effected

Wed 01/14/26 06:55 AM



I think it's 50/50 really.. I'd prefer real world connections but it's hard to achieve when you live in the boonies, so.. jumped back in the pond to see if there's any bites (fishing reference laugh)
so far I've had 111 like me in 3 days.. mostly scammers I'd wager smelling new blood yawn
Yes I can relate to that, especially out in 'boonies' :blush:
Scammers are rife here, and on most dating sites I guess, pity as it ruins the experience for sincere people.. Happy New to ya anyway :wink::beers:🥳


scammers are rife EVERYwhere there days.. noway and yes.. in many ways it ruins the experience.. I've been part of M2 since almost the very beginning and I've met from here, in the real world, many who've become good long term friends.. I opened a thread "Zee's Pub" back then and had lots of fun adventures online with those same folks, and many others.. but this time round? I'm at like 148 "likes me" in 4 days.. and as previously mentioned.. most are probably scammers.. mind blowing.. disheartening really.. but.. it is what it is huh.. ohwell

All the best to you in the new year too drinker