Forget the fireballs, horns, and long tails...that is easy to live with ..but the lies, secrets , distortions and gaslighting is what destroys relationships....so much so it is very difficult to even imagine another one ..IMO
" Women like making love in the dark , coz they just hate seeing a man having Fun "
I hear how much pain those lies and secrets caused you, and you are right—gaslighting destroys trust, which is something nobody should tolerate.
However, it sounds like you are projecting the behavior of a toxic individual onto all women.
It’s important not to let one bad experience make you think everyone is the same.
What you're describing—the distortion of reality—is abuse. But saying women hate seeing a man have fun? That sounds more like bitterness than reality. Maybe it's time to focus on healing from that specific abuse rather than punishing all women for it.
Where do men make love?? Under the Sun??... The one you're characterizing in your statement belongs to men not women...
And isn't it that some if not most of the men enjoy's being in the dark... and not only that... but blindfolded as well...talking about fun...hmmmmmm