Regardless if one is not appealing to you in some sort of way then you are not going to take the situation any farther than friends at times..
There has to be some sort of attraction whether it be their looks/personality etc..
Even if some say looks does not matter.. That is hard to believe for if they were set up with someone on a blind date and when they met them they look like they are homeless how many would actually say looks does not matter..
We all have things we are looking for when it comes to a partner.. And there are things that would make us think no way not dealing with that type of attitude etc...
One can be plain looking with a personality that makes others notice them. At times ones personality is what makes them shine.. Then one can be beautiful and open their mouths and what comes out of it makes them ugly within..
Looks may not be the ending/beginning factor but in reality it still plays a roll on the ones we take a shinning too..

I just read this.. talk about same line of thought
but totally agree.. one can look absolutely amazing and you

over'em.. then they open their mouths and the ugly comes pouring out..