There is context instead of everyone assuming or prejudging.
She said somebody cheated on her so I asked what do you do for your man? I was then going to respond he's stupid if you do all that for him and didn't appreciate it. It's not about me, the person who says that about me is ignorant. I've never gotten this from any woman before so she told me her whole story upon meeting but I guess you think that's probably me right? Don't attack when you think you know how the conversation went, because you don't. you only think that because you don't have the whole conversation.
you shud have added the "context" in your initial post.. and because you DIDN'T.. it elicited the replies you got.. attacking others for NOT understanding is being ignorant.. you gave us the impression it WAS you.. we can't read your mind.. we simply responded to your post.. nothing more..