Topic: All about love and relationship
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Ashley

Tue 11/03/26 06:47 AM

Should we find Love or just wait for it?
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soufiehere

Tue 11/03/26 01:50 PM


I lean toward door #2, wait for it.

If you are all the time looking, you probably
will not see the forest for the trees.

Whereas if you wait, what comes to you as
surprise easily gets your attention.
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Duttoneer

Thu 11/05/26 05:08 AM

This lady decided to wait



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Matzila

Mon 11/09/26 10:46 PM

I lean toward door #2, wait for it.

If you are all the time looking, you probably
will not see the forest for the trees.

Whereas if you wait, what comes to you as
surprise easily gets your attention.

am lookinh for serious relationship
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Aatheera

Tue 11/10/26 06:26 AM

Should we find Love or just wait for it?

Constantly seeking someone to love doesn't build the strength within oneself.
30% of the time should be spent on improvising oneself from the mistakes done in the past relationships,
40% of the time to be spent on loving oneself(eating well, maintaining good sleep hours, workouts, grooming, smiling n making oneself feel the best in solitude)and getting healed from any trauma or pains from the past,
10% of the time to be spent on learning any new skill as part of your passion or regarding your career,
10% of the time to be spent on treating yourself - doing what you like in a good way, gifting yourself, going on a solo date so you start loving who you are and start understanding yourself in a better way,
10% of the time to be spent on opening up your soul and manifesting the goodness you need in your life, manifesting what you dream of and what kind of a person you want to attract..
these small efforts from you for yourself and for your dreams can attract the right person into your life and you don't have to find or chase love anymore! the right love will find you.
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bobtail76

Tue 11/10/26 12:37 PM


Should we find Love or just wait for it?

Constantly seeking someone to love doesn't build the strength within oneself.
30% of the time should be spent on improvising oneself from the mistakes done in the past relationships,
40% of the time to be spent on loving oneself(eating well, maintaining good sleep hours, workouts, grooming, smiling n making oneself feel the best in solitude)and getting healed from any trauma or pains from the past,
10% of the time to be spent on learning any new skill as part of your passion or regarding your career,
10% of the time to be spent on treating yourself - doing what you like in a good way, gifting yourself, going on a solo date so you start loving who you are and start understanding yourself in a better way,
10% of the time to be spent on opening up your soul and manifesting the goodness you need in your life, manifesting what you dream of and what kind of a person you want to attract..
these small efforts from you for yourself and for your dreams can attract the right person into your life and you don't have to find or chase love anymore! the right love will find you.


I agree with this concept, not necessarily the numbers - but I'm not sure what this hasta do with the original question, because there is no number for looking or waiting!

Duttoneer makes a good point!

I understand Sophie's philosophy...

You end up finding your glasses when you stop looking for them. But if they were on your head the whole time - you missed the opportunity that you needed them for in the first place. I think you make it easier on yourself if you are looking for it. I think if you are actively looking for it, it may put you in a disposition where you may be more accepting and approachable in a situation that was not planned.
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Slim gym

Wed 11/11/26 02:42 PM

Knock and the door will be opened for you

Seek and you will find

Wait and you will be disappointed

Go for it ....even mistakes can be fun ....you also may learn something you never knew before .....

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Martin

Thu 11/12/26 12:59 AM

I rather go for what I want than to wait 🥰🥰