why doesnt anyone give me a chance i know im handicapped and fat but u shouldnt judge a person who u havent even met in person or even known them long even enough to judge i dont judge anyone by their skin color or weight or if they have problems but yet they judge me because im not some skinny twig thats messed up in my eyes cause no one knows what the hell ive been through in the last 22 yrs im here trying to meet a man for a committed relationship and yet no one gives me a chance

really don't know what to tell you!.
accept the world is a cruel place!.
but luckily for you..
you can join everyone on the forums.
we're all about accepting...
. and seeing past your outer self..
so just pick a topic..
add your two cents in.. just be yourself.. and welcome..2m2..

I agree come join us I promise you will cheer up and laugh in here.

babygirl, if you have lost all hope in people, it doesn't matter what dating site (or anyplace for that matter) you go to, you won't find happiness. happiness comes from within. i wish suzanne20 was still posting on here. much like no1phD, i can't relate. suzanne would have related to your situation and known exactly what to say. but alas, you are stuck with a bunch of crazy friendly mingltards who can't relate, but will welcome you despite their own handicaps. godspeed, bulldog

can i give you a hug x

You are not helping yourself any by having a profile image of you frowning.

we all handicapped in diffrent ways. beauty comes from inside us and reflected to other, be happy, be you, look at the half full cup. smile a lot, relax ( BTW ) you &I you'll be fine at least you are not original from Middle East
hugggggggggg

may i can help you plz reply

People suck. Looks are everything to certain folks. Good luck.

Yes join us and we will welcome you with open arms...there are some good people in here... I hope you will join in...Hello I'm Lars By the way...

welcome to mingle. join us in the forums and get to know people. there are a lot of great people here.
eve though you may have your physical limitations but your mind and your outlook will take you a long way.
look forward to seeing you in the forums.

Hugs to you!!
There are people....shallow people....who think beauty on the outside is most important, but really your beauty emanates from within you. If you have a good heart, treat people with kindness and are truly happy with who you are, that is your beauty and the right people will see that and love you for that. The outer shell fades and cracks but what's in you, in your heart, is who you truly are, embrace that and let it shine! Good luck to you!

Well put ladies... You all rock...

We are all here for you.

It all comes down to personality. Try to incorporate that in your profile & I'm sure it'll be more than just a passing glance.

This is just a guess, so please don't feel hurt by my assumption. Maybe the men detect something bad about your personality that you don't see. It's something to consider, right? Or you were just not their type. I mean no ill towards you. It's just one opinion of many ;)

Another thing, don't go around believing or buying into the fact that only thin, blonde, rich, lettuce-eating people get the best quality men, because that really is a load of bull. I know a lot of people who are average looking, who have some of the best lovers. So that's proof enough, that not all men like their women looking like over-baked versions of Pamela Anderson. If it's of any comfort, I've now ditched the blonde hair colour. As I don't want to look like some "beach barbie". I want to stay looking natural. So now my hair is darker. And I'm a bit more curvier in the thighs. Being a blonde was never all that. I had more fun being darker-haired anyway. I got asked on more dates than when I was blonde. True story.

Why still i cant find the partner ? Why is that iam always asking myself this question . Without partner means very boring and lonely life . If anybody interested please inbox me without any hesitation and thanks for visit my post.

Heeeellllooo ,i feel the first thing you should try an do is have a more positive attitude ,alot of folks may not be handicap or a"few extra pounds",but how many people on this site alone have'nt met that specail person?So change that attitude and keep your head up ok , wish you well!!!

I have a handicap, and some days suck big time. Many times I just want to throw in the towel. But these people in the forums are the best people you'll ever meet. They got me through my darkest day, and lifted me up when I lost hope. It's hard just try getting through one day at a time. And please join in the forums. My prayers and thoughts are with you. Big hugs