When you ask "is it okay if we just stay home and maybe watch a movie and get a pizza" and they say" oh sure I love to lounge around the house", then the next day they are quiet and you ask whats wrong and they say" we never go anywhere".
So this scenario, you really really feel like staying in.. what would you do if she said: "Nah, I feel like going out and dance / go crazy / have fun!"?
And she wants this with you...
Seriously asking ... What then?
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You all seem to want us to be more direct and open, but can you - and are you willing to - handle the consequences of that? How would you handle them?
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My missus can't say that about me, cos if she wants to go anywhere and i mean anywhere, i take her, cos i love going out and to new places also. I'm lucky that she has a very good nature about her though and isn't highly strung, like a couple of my exes were.