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adivorcedone

Thu 01/14/16 05:36 PM

Have been attracting the "mothering kind" of women lately....maybe because I still drag my feet.....or maybe they like to tuck me into bed....lol...

mzrosie

Thu 01/14/16 05:42 PM

I attract people who wander into a room full of nuts... and say "I'm home at last."

I believe that the law of attraction is the work of our minds, thoughts, imaginations and words. Our mind has the power to attract things that we think about either positive or negative, whichever we try to focus on. In short, what we think is what we get.

Whatever we think, it brings signal to our brain stimulating our emotions and thus manifested in our actions could either be joy , sorrow, pain, hate, fear, anger, love, etc. If we focus our attention on positive thoughts, we then attract good vibes or positive energy because this is what your body and mind exudes. Like, if you feel animosity towards other people, tendency is they will feel that from you and in turn will also be hostile with you, but if you show affection or compassion to others, they will also give it back to you. In a relationship, if you have hatred or bitterness in your heart, this will emit negative feelings towards your partner causing friction between you. What is in your mind will always affect your thoughts and actions thus the people around you will react in the same manner you show them. Your thoughts and emotions are always visible in your actions, feelings, facial expressions, gestures or words, and people are receptive to these.

Surround yourself with positivity and try to get away from negativity and you will truly feel calmness and peace within you. Crystal is right listen to music that you like and don't watch bad news on tv. I usually listen to relaxing instrumental music such as piano and saxophone, it helps me feel chilled and relaxed it calms my mind and when you are feeling good inside , it emanates happiness to your environment and the people around you will feel you and get affected too. This is the law of attraction for me:)

Yeah, but it doesn't have to be soothing or classical music. As long as it makes you feel good, it can be anything.
I've been listening to Peter Gabriel's Secret World for almost 2 months now laugh

The entire gig is to be found on YouTube, and even after all this time, I still can't get enough of it. I just love "Solsbury Hill" and "Sledgehammer" and "Come talk to me".
Sometimes I listen to Christina Aguilera's music from the movie "Burlesque". Great to dance to.

I think in 2-3 months I've listened to the news twice. I don't feel I'm missing much. It's always negative, death and destruction. OH happy day! Lol.

dolphin0925

Sun 01/17/16 07:13 AM

Yeah, but it doesn't have to be soothing or classical music. As long as it makes you feel good, it can be anything.
I've been listening to Peter Gabriel's Secret World for almost 2 months now laugh

"Burlesque". Great to dance to.

I think in 2-3 months I've listened to the news twice. I don't feel I'm missing much. It's always negative, death and destruction. OH happy day! Lol.

You're right Crystal, you can listen to anything that could make you feel good :thumbsup:

I listened to Peter Gabriel's Secret World, great music I like it and now I've added it tomy favorites :smile:

SparklingCrystal 💖💎

Sun 01/17/16 01:50 PM

Yeah, but it doesn't have to be soothing or classical music. As long as it makes you feel good, it can be anything.
I've been listening to Peter Gabriel's Secret World for almost 2 months now laugh

"Burlesque". Great to dance to.

I think in 2-3 months I've listened to the news twice. I don't feel I'm missing much. It's always negative, death and destruction. OH happy day! Lol.

You're right Crystal, you can listen to anything that could make you feel good :thumbsup:

I listened to Peter Gabriel's Secret World, great music I like it and now I've added it tomy favorites :smile:

Haha, so you're hooked now too! LOL
I got the entire album on my PC, but I just like to watch the gig every now and then :tongue:

Seeing how well all the musicians know each other and get along (Peter's played with that bass & guitar player an awful lot, same for the drummer).
Somewhere halfway through "Solsbury Hill" the bass player blows Peter a kiss, just friggin hilarious. And it shows how well they work together.
Since I've worked with a band myself, I thoroughly enjoy seeing that kind of interaction.

Anyways, enjoy the music!
flowerforyou

lillovebean

Sun 01/17/16 07:16 PM

So then I changed my "wanting to meet my Mr Right" to "meeting the guy that's right for me now".
Otherwise I'm trying to manifest what maybe cannot be manifested yet, and that attempt would block what is needed to get there.
I completely agree with this. Well said :thumbsup:

mendy2

Sun 01/17/16 08:53 PM

Ian attracted to men that have beards and who like to go fishing and hunting. And smart men that good with there hands like he could fix almost anything. But most the men on here that contacts me is to young for me and just looking for sex. I am 60 and to find a old timer who love the outdoors. Well it impossible.

mendy2

Sun 01/17/16 08:53 PM

VioletTigress

Mon 01/18/16 12:17 AM

But what kind of men do you attract?

SparklingCrystal 💖💎

Mon 01/18/16 03:27 AM

Maybe you attract that type of younger men, because you believe that you cannot find a fit and healthy 'old timer'.
Clean up your vibration and start saying and believing that there are plenty of men your age that are still fit and healthy.
Maybe not add anything else to that (can fix things, hunting & fishing), because if the man for you doesn't do that, you won't ever meet him.
Plus, if that is important for you, it is automatically included in "the right partner for me". No need to add it.

The Universe knows you don't want a younger guy with a mustache who plays computer games all day long or a 60-yr old couch potato.
So the need to clarify and specify to great detail isn't necessary (usually will even work against you).

If you keep saying and convincing yourself that it is impossible, this man can never ever come to you. So start looking at men in a different way and I'm sure you'll come to see that there are plenty of men in their 60s that are still incredibly fit.
From what I see, men that age usually are strong as oxen, stronger than a man in his 30s. So him not existing is BS.

dolphin0925

Mon 01/18/16 06:21 AM

Yeah, but it doesn't have to be soothing or classical music. As long as it makes you feel good, it can be anything.
I've been listening to Peter Gabriel's Secret World for almost 2 months now laugh

"Burlesque". Great to dance to.

I think in 2-3 months I've listened to the news twice. I don't feel I'm missing much. It's always negative, death and destruction. OH happy day! Lol.

You're right Crystal, you can listen to anything that could make you feel good :thumbsup:

I listened to Peter Gabriel's Secret World, great music I like it and now I've added it tomy favorites :smile:

Haha, so you're hooked now too! LOL
I got the entire album on my PC, but I just like to watch the gig every now and then :tongue:

Lol! I got hooked with the whole band and Peter, he's so sexy and a superb musician/performer , they all are a team player, the concert was very well conceptualized and choreographed. They are all in synced with the music and with each other, best stage production ever :thumbsup:

Thanks for sharing Crystal, I enjoyed listening to it flowerforyou

Valeris

Mon 01/18/16 09:48 PM

Types? The Myers-Briggs Type Indicator® (MBTI®) personality inventory scores me as an INTJ. The most compatible personality type for me[ my type] would be another INTJ, unfortunately such a types are quite rare, few & far between. So far on this site my encounters have been with "Types" that have not been a good match[for many reasons] & have not been compatible with elements of my own personality. Meeting another INTJ has got really nothing to do with anything except luck, timing, & elements far outside of my control[unless I could program my own algorithms into the search software].
Patience...when/if it's meant to be; it will happen.
Everything's eventual;} :smile:

Josh5719

Tue 01/19/16 03:13 PM

If I new how to attract what I want I wouldn't be here. I'd be with her right now. I guess I attract the emotionally unavailable type.

metalwing

Tue 01/19/16 03:23 PM

I like meteor rocks. They are unusual and collectible...

Wait! What's that huge black thing in the sky??!!!!

AAAIIII!!

themp

Thu 02/11/16 01:18 PM

HI Peggy! I have studied the law of attraction.I noticed I can attract what I want ONLY with extreme faith and No lingering doubt. Apparently it requires complete conviction.Just my experience and two cents :smile:

peggy122

Thu 02/11/16 02:32 PM

Hi Tim. Well if that's the case, then I have a long road ahead. I dont have extreme faith yet.

SparklingCrystal 💖💎

Thu 02/11/16 05:42 PM

Hi Tim. Well if that's the case, then I have a long road ahead. I dont have extreme faith yet.

Nah, you don't need extreme faith at all. What you need to focus on, is feeling good, positive and happy. Meaning you sort of avoid things, people and situations that make you feel unhappy, negative and crappy.
The more you do that, the better you feel and then you are far more aligned with who you really are (which is a nice, happy person, not some grumpy old f@rt). And when you are more aligned, things will start to come easier and easier to you. Up to the point that you find yourself thinking "Things always seem to work out for me?!"
You just revel in feeling good and positive. And you don't beat yourself up when you have a bad hair-day. Those aren't all that bad either, cos they make clear what it is you do NOT want, making it easier to focus on what you do want.

In a nutshell you have to stop focusing on what is (unless it makes you feel really good!) and focus on how you would want it to be. And really get into how that would make you feel.