Topic: The types you attract ..
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peggy122

Mon 02/15/16 06:00 AM




HI Peggy! I have studied the law of attraction.I noticed I can attract what I want ONLY with extreme faith and No lingering doubt. Apparently it requires complete conviction.Just my experience and two cents :smile:


Hi Tim. Well if that's the case, then I have a long road ahead. I dont have extreme faith yet.

Nah, you don't need extreme faith at all. What you need to focus on, is feeling good, positive and happy. Meaning you sort of avoid things, people and situations that make you feel unhappy, negative and crappy.
The more you do that, the better you feel and then you are far more aligned with who you really are (which is a nice, happy person, not some grumpy old f@rt). And when you are more aligned, things will start to come easier and easier to you. Up to the point that you find yourself thinking "Things always seem to work out for me?!"
You just revel in feeling good and positive. And you don't beat yourself up when you have a bad hair-day. Those aren't all that bad either, cos they make clear what it is you do NOT want, making it easier to focus on what you do want.

In a nutshell you have to stop focusing on what is (unless it makes you feel really good!) and focus on how you would want it to be. And really get into how that would make you feel.



Thanks Crystal :) That makes it more manageable for me I think :)
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mendy2

Sun 05/01/16 01:35 PM

I like country guys who has tractors and dirt and farm land
they talk alittle southern and God believing . And funny they love to joke around and go fishing and drives a truck.
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adivorcedone

Sun 05/01/16 02:06 PM

Of late I seem to attract the bold and the beautiful...I am totally at a loss to understand or explain this....I sometimes feel un worthy of such attention...but then I take a gander in my mirror, and everything seems to be alright...lol....yeah, I am ready for the hate mail I am about to receive:tongue: :tongue: laugh ...
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BHawkins

Sun 05/01/16 05:21 PM

For the last few years an abnomal amount of married women and/or black women have been the ones who've at least made it obvious. It's been that way with black women since I was a teenager but the married ones mainly the last 4 years
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no1phD

Sun 05/01/16 05:32 PM

I must be doing something wrong..
All I ever get are the looky-loos..
Tire kickers..lol.. I don't know if it is my 6-4 height.. are the fact that I might look unapproachable.. I got a lot of women looking but nobody really approaches.. and starts up a conversation.. I can go an entire week this way women look but that's as far as it ever goes... and I just don't have the skill set to be the one initiating the mating dance..lol.. sincerely ..okay looking ,lonely and broken hearted..
WHAT!..lol
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no1phD

Sun 05/01/16 05:34 PM

Ps.. it's a lot easier to meet people online! than it is offline in the offline world...j.s
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BHawkins

Sun 05/01/16 05:41 PM


Ps.. it's a lot easier to meet people online! than it is offline in the offline world...j.s


It's the opposite for me :/
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Destinysyours

Sun 05/01/16 05:58 PM

I keep attracting much younger (at least by almost 20 years) big girls

And the males are also very young too. 25+...
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Destinysyours

Sun 05/01/16 06:00 PM



Ps.. it's a lot easier to meet people online! than it is offline in the offline world...j.s


It's the opposite for me :/


I concur, I have no issues meeting ppl offline. I think online folks have too many deep rooted issues that even Sigmund Freud can't dig out.
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TMommy

Sun 05/01/16 08:18 PM

lost boys
sad sacks
lonesome losers
mama's boys
desperados
and basket cases
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Destinysyours

Sun 05/01/16 08:41 PM

That may not be about you, it could very well be the types of men that sign up for the sites you use...
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AdrianT26

Mon 05/02/16 01:23 PM

All types...there were a few great people,some nice people and loads of crazy people :D
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Mary_Malone

Mon 05/02/16 02:49 PM

I always seemed to get tall men.
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ErotiDoug

Mon 05/02/16 03:09 PM


Told about this before ...
- When I was seriously attracted to this Scot ... I got steeped with PMs from Scottish men
- When I had the hots for an Italian man ... I suddenly got loads of PMs from Italian men
- When I was focused on NOT wanting a loser ... I got losers only

Law of Attraction, you can tell what YOU yourself exude by what you attract.

The other day, a good-looking guy with a nice feel. Approached him, he was very interested too. We got talking. It went really well, felt good, was flirty and playful. These days I ask pretty soon how tall a man is, as it's a dealbreaker.
He was 1.80m (just an inch taller than me).
Dammit! Not the one. I really need a taller man to feel good. But I figured I could still date him (He'd mentioned that).
However ... immediately after my THOUGHT "Dammit, he's not the one for me" he withdrew. Convo went down the drain and within minutes he said he had to spent time with his kids. Shortly after he'd removed me from his contact list.

Isn't that amazing? I hadn't even said anything, yet somehow he did pick up on the vibe that something had changed. And right that very minute, second even, things changed between us. In real life, fair enough, but this even works online.

This Law of Attraction business is really incredible and can teach you a lot if you pay heed.
If you just pay heed to the types you attract, you know what you yourself put out there, what your own vibe is. They are just a reflection of that.



* Panthers (slang) run to my Profile and are very relaxed to yak-yak-yak . They are on a different world then I. But are happy to relate and talk about what is going on in their world.
* Shockingly they are always very polite, so I find it very nice.


** fun to have 5 to 15 notes, waiting for my sign-on.
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fitque2491

Mon 05/02/16 03:36 PM

Girls love fitness :)
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Destinysyours

Tue 05/03/16 10:14 AM


Girls love fitness :)


Im very fit naturally, so IF I were on the market I will want a person that is in shape and has a nice body. I WONT start off with an obese person and expect that person t have the desire to get is shape afterwards. They never seem to want to.
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latersbaby65

Tue 05/03/16 10:25 PM

on losers an users for sum reason. I must hve stupid across my forehead
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Destinysyours

Tue 05/03/16 10:27 PM

LoL
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BHawkins

Wed 05/04/16 03:46 AM


on losers an users for sum reason. I must hve stupid across my forehead


Switch to women ...they are better ;)
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Twintidbits24

Wed 05/04/16 03:55 AM


"The types you attract .."

I keep attracting law officers. I wonder why. :angel:


Coz you looked "Unique" That is Why laugh