Intimate is just sex
Activity partner is ACTIVE sex
I just ran into a similar thing at another dating site.
I messaged a woman and she replied with a
"
We won't work out because if you read my profile you know I don't want anyone that smokes pot or does drugs!"
I messaged back with a reply that I don't.
She messaged back that my profile says I am an "
occasional smoker" and that
means that I smoke pot.
I am trying to quit smoking cigarettes so I '
smoke occasionally'.
What I understand is that someone that smokes pot is "
420 Friendly".
My point is, there are a lot of people that try to '
read into' anything that is posted on a profile. Most people that lie, think everyone else does too.
Most people think everyone operates on the same "
wavelength" but we don't.
You know what they say about "
As sUme".
Not many people can take things at '
face value'.
Assuming there is always a hidden meaning or ulterior motive.
That what you see is not the real story.
The condition stems from our media over-exposure.
The implied hidden meaning behind the events of the day sells air time, editions and web revenue. We are conditioned to not believe what we see as that whole truth.
Now that search for an
activity partner gains a new meaning based on our conditioning. Sometimes the assumption is accurate but sometimes, it just means what it says.
Edited by
Tom4Uhere
on Thu 05/10/18 10:09 AM