Interesting article:
Sometimes people ask me in relation to the Law of Attraction: is it really true that I can have anything I want, as long as I think about it and feel good about it too?
This has been pretty much the message from the film "The Secret", and is also the basis of many of the Law of Attraction teachings.
The answer is quite simple: yes and no. Yes, you can have anything you want, and no, you cannot have anything you want.
Now that really helps, doesn't it? It is part of what I tend to call the "cosmic joke", or -to put it a bit more respectfully- the "universal paradox". In plain English: it is the difference between what is possible in principle, and what is possible in your world.
So yes, in principle you can be anyone, and do and have anything you want. In principle. There is no universal force that will stop you from acquiring all the riches, all the happiness, all the joy, all the material and immaterial gains you may desire. Why would there be?
Here comes the first part of the cosmic joke, though: depending on YOU will you be able or unable to allow this all into your life. Notice that I am not talking about attraction here, but about allowing. There is a major difference.
The second part to the cosmic joke is this: whatever has an up, must have a down. Life/nature/universe or whatever you want to call it is always balancing itself out, and will not allow one "extreme" to persist forever and ever. A counterbalancing act will be initiated at some point.
As for the first part of the cosmic joke: attraction is always at play. Ever working, never failing. As soon as you put a thought out (+ or -), you are attracting. On the other hand: allowing is a different kettle of fish: it has to do with your belief in being able to attract whatever it is you desire.
Beliefs are nothing more than a bunch of statements you make about the (=your) world, about things you hold to be true in the (=your) world. Now if you want something, but you don't believe you can have it "just like that", you may be attracting it -asking for something sets attraction in motion- but you will not allow it to come to you.
Subtle difference! If your desire and your belief levels are not equal, you will have troubles manifesting your desire.
Simple example: if you really want to have a loving partner, but also fear, somewhere deep down, that you will stay single until the end of your days, you will probably not attract that partner into your life.
Or: if you really want to attract $100,000 in your life, but believe it will not come to you unless you work your buttocks off, you will not allow the money to come to you by merely thinking and feeling about it.
Hmmmm.
As for the second part of the cosmic joke: in the universe there is always a striving for balance. Like a pendulum, after a swing left, there will be a swing right. Night follows day, ebb follows flow, being sleepy follows being active, winter follows summer (and autumn....), and growing old follows being young. These cosmic cycles are there to stay. Get over it! If you want to be active, you will have to sleep. If you want to enjoy the heat, you will have to endure the cold.
This being so, there will be times in which attracting and allowing your desires into your life seems an utterly responsible task. It just will not seem to work.
Temporarily.
That is just the balancing out process that we cannot stop, and that process is actually necessary to then be clearer about what it is we DO want later on! Can you start to grasp that?
What to do?
Cosmic Joke number 1 can be managed (not overcome) by becoming aware of your beliefs and the emotions attached to them -without judgement, by deciding to change dishonouring beliefs into more honouring ones, and by starting to look for evidence of the new belief you would like to hold.
Nothing breeds beliefs like evidence! There are some really easy processes to tweak your thinking into getting more of what you do want, and less of what you don't. So if you want money, start observing where it -albeit in minute amounts!- already shows up in your life. That will raise your vibration and enable you to allow more money in.
Cosmic Joke number 2 is what it is; no use fighting it. If you can start to see that "contrast" is actually a necessary component for your ability to attract anything into your life, you can start to feel a sense of gratitude for all these processes. Deepak Chopra calls this "the state of grace". This state will automatically assist your vibration to go up, whereby you will become more resourceful quickly, and before you know it, you are on the up rise again, attracting and allowing your desires.
Understand this: life is never about attracting what you want only. First of all, we hardly even know what we truly want, and second of all, it is impossible, given the universal flow of life.
http://ezinearticles.com/?Law-of-Attraction-and-The-Cosmic-Joke&id=707512
Edited by
smiless
on Wed 12/10/08 09:50 AM