What a list of stuff, I haven't even met anyone yet, just seen a profile, yeah all that stuff is big red flags, but might take a while to all thaqt out find out.
LOL well I don't think I would grill someone for a luandry list of answers on line or even in first dates. That would be pretty crazy in itself; but if you are dateing sooner or later you are going to pick up bits and pieces in general conversation. You will see things when you start being in their environment. What gets most people in trouble is ignoreing the little signs. That and getting in too deep too quick. Nobody wants to admidt they have gotten involved with a wacko and try to rationalize away or excuse little stuff.
I don't know if dates are flakeing out on introduction but it does make a good case for making the first date somewhere very public but where alcohol is not going to be served.
I hear ya, I ignored before and paid the price.