You stand corrected. Your mistaken. I did'nt have the
technology until just recently. I took "basic computer training"
at the "Hispanic Chamber of Commerce". This is a new computer.

What she is saying is the yhe date you joined the site it November 10th 2009.....you are not new to this site and are showing 49 posts in the last year....which basically is your fault for not posting more but you are not using a new account.........its kind of like your date of birth your joined date stays with you.....

Nice good for you.....but she want talking about you we can see you joined the site on 11/23/2010......and can tell you are a new member to the site......

If I get hit on I would automatically assume they were an alien and I would kill them...which is different than when I invite them over for dinner, I don't assume they are aliens, I just stuff them in my sto...erhm...

Funny....

Honestly, I've had a number of women hit on me. One I dated for about a year. Turned down at least two right away. Another one, well....it didn't work out, but I still know her, and we're on friendly terms. And then most recently here on Mingle...

Actually I think it's kinda hot when a woman goes for it first, tells me right away they are interested, I'm normally not the type of guy to continue bugging a girl if she doesn't seem interested, it is a nice change.

A few of ex's made the first move but then I start thinking... they are ex's for a reason... wonder if that's related...

its all personal preference, many women like myself prefer a guy who is a leader and the first indication of that is that they have the courage to approach

nothing better or worse about either situation, its just all personal preference

Hummm I have in the past initiated contact with a few but needless nothing happen.... But I still prefer the old fashion way..... shshsh the way it is now the guys want the women to initiate the meet decide were to go pay their part and get pissed if they don't get laid...... So what is left for the guys to do if they want the women to do it all.....

Watch TV.

I adore being chased!

Like that is soooooooo much to ask!


as opposed to the ladies wanting me to approach them, I gotta pick a place, I gotta pay, then drinks and dancing and then they expect me to put out too.... it is a double standard I say!!!!!!

"laughing: So what is left for the guys to do if they want the women to do it all....."....believe me...if guys could suck thier own **** we wouldnt even be having this conversation.

If I'm interested their gonna know it...life is too short for guessing games.

The whole waiting game is silly for men and women. Why wait around and hope they ask you out?

You would have more dates if you asked the man out.

And the demand of the man in question.

Does that mean there will be a rise in cat-fights?

you ask me out anytime, i won't say no...

He!! I just take a walk downtown and I have women on every corner asking me if I'm needing a "date" for the evening.

Cool. I wanna be the bookie when they start breaking out.

They actually have at least one dating webiste dedicated to this, h e r way.com The guys can;t see the womens profile suntil the women message them or "wink at then.
I may be old fashioned, But I might send a messgae to someone saying "Hi" SO they might get the clue I;m interested.