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Topic: Do you appreciate a woman w/ some meat on her bones?
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kc0003

Fri 01/07/11 08:47 PM


I am by no means fat, but I do have a fe extra pounds. It seems as though most men are looking for women that are like models and/or down right skinny. I would like to believe that's not true. If you are a man that appreciates a little meat with your potatoes or a woman that agrees, I would love to hear from you!!


first of all, would you mind defining appreciate? do you mean in a jolly ole st nick kind way? i'm confused, because i was under the impression that to appreciate someone would be to recognize the value of them as a person. so i have to ask, what does this have to do with having "a little meat with your potatoes?"....

it sounds to me like you have come into contact with people that simply have likes and dislikes, and i guess that does include people that like those that are "down right skinny." how dare they!
Edited by kc0003 on Fri 01/07/11 08:48 PM
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brittanyshaw

Sat 01/08/11 06:55 AM


flowerforyou more cushion for the pushin'


of course you would say that ex hubby
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krupa

Sat 01/08/11 06:59 AM

The wording is a little too loose on this one...."A few extra pounds" aint 3...I can tell you that right now.

I have dated plush girls as well as the ones with bodies to die for. Personality makes up for some of it but, generally big people ask these questions to validate that they dont have to try to shape up for thier potential partners.

I think thats crap.

The question I think of is "Should I do what I can to be more appealing to my lover...or is it ok to not even try?"

Should I brush my hair?.......yes
Should I brush my tooth?......yes
Should I dress nice?..........yes
Should I trim my pubes?.......yes
Should I try to be healthier?.yes


Would you rather date Brad Pitt or Tom Arnold?
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willing2

Sat 01/08/11 07:18 AM

Tom Arnold.
He'd make me look good.drinker
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krupa

Sat 01/08/11 07:22 AM


Tom Arnold.
He'd make me look good.drinker


You @$$!!! heheheheehhehe (good point though)
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fireflysgirl

Wed 01/19/11 05:09 PM


The wording is a little too loose on this one...."A few extra pounds" aint 3...I can tell you that right now.

I have dated plush girls as well as the ones with bodies to die for. Personality makes up for some of it but, generally big people ask these questions to validate that they dont have to try to shape up for thier potential partners.

I think thats crap.

The question I think of is "Should I do what I can to be more appealing to my lover...or is it ok to not even try?"

Should I brush my hair?.......yes
Should I brush my tooth?......yes
Should I dress nice?..........yes
Should I trim my pubes?.......yes
Should I try to be healthier?.yes


Would you rather date Brad Pitt or Tom Arnold?


Oh krupa...ya got me with the tooth instead of teeth...LOL-I've been through some of those towns too laugh

OP-this thread reminded me of the very first time I saw Rodney Carrington! My first semester of college & a free show...I knew when he opened his mouth that bringing Gramma was a bad idea-LOL laugh

He had a song back then (pre HBO deal) called "I like my women like I like my chicken" & Gramma nearly fainted she laughed so hard rofl

haha-found it on Youtube http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=0g2HWmCXX3M
Edited by fireflysgirl on Wed 01/19/11 05:12 PM
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kenatwood

Wed 01/19/11 05:49 PM

in between...
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Chazster

Wed 01/19/11 05:56 PM



The wording is a little too loose on this one...."A few extra pounds" aint 3...I can tell you that right now.

I have dated plush girls as well as the ones with bodies to die for. Personality makes up for some of it but, generally big people ask these questions to validate that they dont have to try to shape up for thier potential partners.

I think thats crap.

The question I think of is "Should I do what I can to be more appealing to my lover...or is it ok to not even try?"

Should I brush my hair?.......yes
Should I brush my tooth?......yes
Should I dress nice?..........yes
Should I trim my pubes?.......yes
Should I try to be healthier?.yes


Would you rather date Brad Pitt or Tom Arnold?


Oh krupa...ya got me with the tooth instead of teeth...LOL-I've been through some of those towns too laugh

OP-this thread reminded me of the very first time I saw Rodney Carrington! My first semester of college & a free show...I knew when he opened his mouth that bringing Gramma was a bad idea-LOL laugh

He had a song back then (pre HBO deal) called "I like my women like I like my chicken" & Gramma nearly fainted she laughed so hard rofl

haha-found it on Youtube http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=0g2HWmCXX3M


Now I do love Rodney, but if you look at his wife it doesnt match his song. XD She is very thin.
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fireflysgirl

Wed 01/19/11 05:58 PM

lol chaz laugh he izza funneh man
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Ruth34611

Wed 01/19/11 06:06 PM

Not again. frustrated
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Okami04

Wed 01/19/11 06:12 PM


Not again. frustrated



Hahaha


Fit is good a lil extra meet is good
But if you try labeling yourself as a mythical BBW then no way no how will I appreciate that
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singmesweet

Wed 01/19/11 07:00 PM


Not again. frustrated


That's exactly what I thought when I saw this thread.
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singmesweet

Wed 01/19/11 07:01 PM



Not again. frustrated



Hahaha


Fit is good a lil extra meet is good
But if you try labeling yourself as a mythical BBW then no way no how will I appreciate that


Perhaps I missed something in the OP. Did she label herself as a BBW? I didn't' see that.
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Ruth34611

Wed 01/19/11 07:09 PM



Not again. frustrated


That's exactly what I thought when I saw this thread.

laugh
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TxsGal3333

Wed 01/19/11 07:28 PM

slaphead Does it really matter there is someone out there for everyone. I don't care what Label you want to put on yourself. Some will like you some will not, learn to deal with it and move on.

We can not always have what we want nor get what we think we deserve.

If one has to question what is out there for each of us then we need to improve ourselves, in order to figure out we really don't even want what we thought we wanted in the first place.

Learn to be happy with yourself first then you will realize if your happy or not...whoa slaphead

Okay off my step stool now.....rofl rofl rofl

I may need my corner before this night is up shshshshrofl rofl

Ohhh and this is coming from one that considers herself a full figured woman... I'm what I'm they will either take me as I'm or move on shshsh
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Chazster

Wed 01/19/11 09:50 PM




Not again. frustrated



Hahaha


Fit is good a lil extra meet is good
But if you try labeling yourself as a mythical BBW then no way no how will I appreciate that


Perhaps I missed something in the OP. Did she label herself as a BBW? I didn't' see that.


No she didn't but in his defense I would say I have seen people that would qualify as obese labeling themselves as a few extra pounds. Not saying she is but I have seen it.
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Okami04

Wed 01/19/11 11:33 PM




Not again. frustrated



Hahaha


Fit is good a lil extra meet is good
But if you try labeling yourself as a mythical BBW then no way no how will I appreciate that


Perhaps I missed something in the OP. Did she label herself as a BBW? I didn't' see that.


It wasn't directed at the Thread Started just to people in General who label themselves as something that don't exist not say a big person can't have a nice personality but BBW refers to looks
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Okami04

Wed 01/19/11 11:40 PM


slaphead Does it really matter there is someone out there for everyone. I don't care what Label you want to put on yourself. Some will like you some will not, learn to deal with it and move on.

We can not always have what we want nor get what we think we deserve.

If one has to question what is out there for each of us then we need to improve ourselves, in order to figure out we really don't even want what we thought we wanted in the first place.

Learn to be happy with yourself first then you will realize if your happy or not...whoa slaphead

Okay off my step stool now.....rofl rofl rofl

I may need my corner before this night is up shshshshrofl rofl

Ohhh and this is coming from one that considers herself a full figured woman... I'm what I'm they will either take me as I'm or move on shshsh


If what you want is reasonable and realistic you can get it that is proven true in my life

you set goals in life and you achieve them nothing complicated about that


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singmesweet

Thu 01/20/11 02:58 AM





Not again. frustrated



Hahaha


Fit is good a lil extra meet is good
But if you try labeling yourself as a mythical BBW then no way no how will I appreciate that


Perhaps I missed something in the OP. Did she label herself as a BBW? I didn't' see that.


It wasn't directed at the Thread Started just to people in General who label themselves as something that don't exist not say a big person can't have a nice personality but BBW refers to looks


Yes, I think we all get that you are not into the "bbw" looks, since you bring it up quite often. I was just curious as to what it had to do with this thread, that's all.
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hiddenmeaning

Thu 01/20/11 02:28 PM

normally i work more off the person than the package. but i will admit i have found a slightly smaller than my normal choice and im happer for it but yes bigger girls can be very hot