Is the extra meat bacon?..yum

I am not a man but I have had experience with men.

No, it is not true. I have a bit of meat on my bones (and I am old) and I have not had a problem attracting men.

Mind you, that a "bit" of meat, not a side of pork.

This is not aimed at you, OP, but I truly believe that women who complain that men are not interested in them because of a few pounds have something else going on.

Yes. Too skinny not attractive. The media pumps out this myth that guys want skinny waifs. most guys I know, myself included don't. Wtf?

Gosh why slam the skinny people????

Big or little thick or thin, vaseline will get it in.

love is from within, if you are only attrated to their looks, then the relationship will eventually die .....

You can always go for the lick & stick method! I'm relativly skinny myself but I don't think it matters. My bubble butt always get's me in trouble! I think guys notice my azz before my boobs, etc.

Or worse - it will survive.... and neither party will know the happiness of a quality relationship.

Where I came from very slim means you're sick.
Little meat means you're normal.
Having said this, I think it depends on you. Just like computer, some people like it small, others midium, others big, and others super big. But ... they all can function as a computer.

well if that happens that means both parties in the relationship have no self esteem and are great for each other.....

I myself prefer a woman on the heavy side. I find it more attractive and more enjoyable sexually. There is someone for everyone right? The morbid obiesity in America is a bit out of control though and anyone in their 40's or above has personally seen the shift in America. The excuses from the "heavy" is a bit tiring though! Every affliction has a movement in this country now and sure would like to see Americans "Stop Whining!".

No offense to the poster was not meant toward you just the topic!

I see this a lot during these topics. You are comparing "a little meat" to "very slim" which is an extreme. A proper comparison would compare a little more to a little less. Or to obese to very skinny. Not a little of one thing vs an extreme.

Just as the OP:



Again comparing one category slightly above "average" to extremes. The comparisons are skewed

Other than preferring woman on the heavy side I agree with everything you just said, I have never heard so many excuses that come from men and mostly woman for being fat in my life and they pretend being fat is not a personal choice not saying they wish they were fat but they don't stop it they just let it happen that's the choice i am talking about. It is absurd and disgusting , going out of the country, people from other countries have this horrible stereo types about Americans and it is deserved but embarrassing at the same time

Personality is much more important than body. A woman who was a conservative and loved B Movies would have to be Quasimodo for me to not think she was gorgeous.

Don't worry some of us ove skinny girls.

No Curves, No Mi Vida Loca.....it`s a simple rule

I notice fat men who can't get nothing else other than Big Women often take what they get

Which is great that they will settle and inderstand where they are at so to speak, unlike Fat Women who have no sense of Double standards and they try to get in shape muscular men or tall dark and handsome guys while being hideous


All I know is looks are important to some degree you have to be physically attracted to a woman to be with her

I worry about a woman being in shape and mildy in to insanely attractive first then once I got that I make sure I can emotionally and mentally connect with them which is second in priorities

Who are you talking about? Maybe you have to be physically attracted to a woman to be with her. Maybe others of us just don't care, or maybe we become physically attracted (regardless of their appearance) to women we find attractive on other levels.

I keep hearing this from people: 'you have to be physically attracted'. Often it sounds like some kind of a appeal to a universal law, intended to justify a personal viewpoint. Its like we have difficult accepting that other people may be very different than we are; more difficult to accept they might have better values than we do.