Okami,
I don't think you are a bad guy.
I also think that you are not alone in your beliefs. There are probably many people reading this thread who agree with you, but they don't say it so directly because they know they will get hated on for it.
Like you, I value fitness. I'd also like to see more people get off their *** and exercise more, but I don't think that hating on fat people is constructive. I'm pretty sure you won't believe me - this will seem like a contradiction to you - but there is a way in which you can 'accept' people's flaws and also encourage them to be a better person at the same time.
I was in the military the way we encourage in the military is call names tell a person they are pathetic until they move their arses and get thins done
Some instructors in the fight world are the same lol
That may work in the military and your world/the fight world, but in regular life, that doesn't go over so well. Constantly putting down people is just going to make people look at you in a very negative way and that normally doesn't work well when you're trying to get people to change.
It work perfectly I think, seriously the military is the real world it work
The military is certainly much different than the real world. But, if it works in the real world for you, great.
However, in another post, you say you're mean to chubby people because they're mean and they are angry at the world. So, which is it? You're calling them names and telling them they're pathetic because that's what you learned in the military, or you're doing so because they're mean and hate the world?
By the way, none of the people I know who are in the military call people names and tell them they're pathetic as a way of encouragement.
