Something tells me that if I were to put a pic of me, laying down on my side in a silk robe opened up to reveal some silk boxers.....yeah....I don't think I would get many responses.

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Bad hygiene, beer belly showing, stained shirt etc. just shows disrespect and a "I don't give a crap" attitude.

It should get you zero attention.

No Charles1962150, women don't "fall all over" these types. There is a difference between ruggedly handsome and a slob.

Something tells me that if I were to put a pic of me, laying down on my side in a silk robe opened up to reveal some silk boxers.....yeah....I don't think I would get many responses.

I kid you not, What I said was the absolute truth. The guy I spoke of above,Every time I see him his hair is sticking straight up and looks like it's got five pounds of dirt in it. Sometimes I wonder if he ever takes a bath.

And here is another one. This is the gods honest truth. It happened to me. I met a woman on POF. We talked for a good while. Everything seemed OK. I'll be honest. I'm over weight. I've got a gut on me. But, When I go out to meet someone I try my best to put my best foot forward. I'm clean,I shave and I wear clean clothes. Nothing fancy. Just nice.

I'm gonna make this story short and get to the good part. This is gonna be hard for some to believe,but it's the truth. This woman stopped dating me because I smelled to good every time we met. She told me straight to my face that she liked the smell of sweat on a man. It turned her on. I was floored. I never thought I would ever in this life time be told that by a woman. I don't want to date you anymore because you smell to good.

She told me that if I really liked her that I would have to stop using deodorant. She said that she could not get turned on with a man that smelled to good. I was really floored. This woman told me that the only way she could have sex with a man,He had to smell like a man that had worked all day in the sun. The stinker,The better.

I never saw her again after that. I couldn't help but think she was a few fries short of a happy meal. That's just something I'm not going to do. I'm not going to stink for anyone.

But, Lets say nothing is wrong with this woman between the ears. It's just her personal preference. That would mean that if there is one that way,There are others that are that way. Which would explain the good looking lawyer lady being attracted to the walking pile of dirt I see in town.

Well then that just proves there is someone for everyone. Even smelly slobs.

Everyone's idea of sexy is different. We should allat least try to put a good impression the first meet. I think we are all visual creatures..hence why we skim through some photos and stop at others. Beauty is in the eye of the beholder!!!

I have a friend that thinks now that he is divorced he has to go to the gym and look like Hugh Jackman to be attractive.I personally do not like a six pack. I would rather have a small gut (not beer belly) on a man. I think it looks more natural. Each to their own. We are like snowflakes, no two are the same

Yep.. it is.

I have a friend that thinks now that he is divorced he has to go to the gym and look like Hugh Jackman to be attractive.I personally do not like a six pack. I would rather have a small gut (not beer belly) on a man. I think it looks more natural. Each to their own. We are like snowflakes, no two are the same