This ****'s funny!

My report:
Since posting my "sexy" pic, viewership is up over 250%! Nudges are up, and requests for intimate encounters have doubled.
I can't say I'm really surprised. It just goes to show how much the pic you choose can affect who contacts you.

Well now see, I would rather put up a really crappy picture
and generate low expectations than a 'hot' one and have
them disappointed with the real thing.

Well, I haven't read every post here. But normally, I'm the odd ball. I will admit that a sexy picture will get me to look. But, That's as far as it will go with me if you can't write more than a one or two word profile.Or, seem to have a hard time stringing enough words together to make a sentence. I get bored,quickly.

Hi, or, "I'll tell you later" & a sexy picture, And that's all,Just doesn't cut it for me. I don't mean to be rude or mean. But, It just comes off as "air head" and lazy to me. Or, Maybe trying to rely solely on ones looks to get men to write. I know that their are lots of men out there that will go for that. Just look at the picture and write. I'm not one of them.

I can't help it. I look for some depth. If whomever can't put enough words down about herself to show me some depth of the person,Strikes me as boring. I move on to the next. I tend to like knowing what's between the ears first. Another thing, I get bored very easy. A pretty face is a good thing to be blessed with. I don't know of any men,including me, that don't like a pretty face. But, Good conversation skills and depth of personality go a lot farther with keeping me around.

Just me.

I am very deep, a bottomless pit in fact. (Spiritually and mentally of course,)

My "sexier" picture gets responses and friend requests from 20-25 year olds with no depth at all. They are young enough to be my grandsons.

So the experiment failed to attract mature men of depth.

I am very deep, a bottomless pit in fact. (Spiritually and mentally of course,)

My "sexier" picture gets responses and friend requests from 20-25 year olds with no depth at all. They are young enough to be my grandsons.

So the experiment failed to attract mature men of depth.

Hum? Well, I don't know for sure. Mean no disrespect to you, But did you ever think that a "sexy picture" could be off putting to some mature men of depth?

Some men of depth look at a picture like that,"Not saying it's wrong or right" But, Instead of thinking it's sexy,They think that, She's looking for sex or she wouldn't be dressed that way? You never know about some people and their way of thinking.

The young bucks that respond to a sexy picture,You know what they are after. They just think "Cougar" "Young,dumb and full of, Well, You know. Seems like a "no win"situation doesn't it? That's why I choose to just be myself. You like me or you don't. No skin off my nose either way.

Soooooooo......a young dude who just can't quite reach that bottomless pit level just doesn't do it for ya eh?

Yep. But if they have enough 'depth' to actually read my profile then they would learn a little something about me, and how I put the sexy picture there for an experiment, and if they were smart, they would recognize my sense of humor. But if they are just browsing pictures, they might just jump to all kinds of wrong conclusions.

P.S. I'm not looking for sex, but I might be looking for someone who could revive my own interest in it. LOL I doubt if that will happen though.

I understand your position. But, Look at it from a mans point of view. Many,many women will say one thing in their profiles. But are totally opposite of what they write when they meet a man. I've had it happen to me several times. Me personally, One of the things that turns me on is when I am allowed to be the one who does the pursuing.

I can't begin to tell you how many women I've met since starting this on-line dating thing,that, In her profile and our talks on the phone made me feel like they thought the same way. Only to meet them and on the first meeting would be totally ready for me to spend the night with her.

I know that the great majority of men out there would hop at that chance to get laid on the first date/meeting. Not me. I guess I'm to old school. If you give it away to me to quick, The thrill of the pursuit has been taken away. I lose interest.

Not to get to far off track. Lots of men out there are use to meeting women that are like that. Say one thing,do another. So, With being use to that it finally becomes an automatic thing and they get to the point that they expect it with every woman they meet. So, Some men think, Why read the profile? Past experience has taught them that with a lot of them,It doesn't matter. They are going to say one thing,and do another.

Now, I'm just playing the devil's advocate here. Me personally, I read profiles either way. I'm a man of my word. What I say I will do, I will do. I try not to expect every woman to be the same as the last. Sometimes it's hard to. But, I try.

Less is more!

No, No game to it. As I said before, I'm kinda old school. I lose interest quick with a woman who will after just a few dates,lay down with me. A lot of people seem to think that if you're not sleeping together within 3 to 5 dates, You're not interested. That's not true for every man. To me, Their's a lot that goes with this. Dating someone, It's part of building trust.

If a woman will sleep with a man that quick,Who knows what she will do when his back is turned. It's also about character. Who are you,What are you? I personally like to know these things before I go sticking my pole in a pond that with all honesty,After three or five dates,I don't know you,you don't really know me.

You see, From the best I can tell,Now, It's all about the "feeling". If it feels right,do it. Well, Sometimes some things may feel right at the time,But in reality,That lust you both feel on the 3rd date, You may think is something else at the time,Until you wake up to that person beside you that was "right" last night and think to yourself, WTF am I doing here? OR, Even worse, A few months pass and what you once thought was "cute" about him or her,Now, Drives you insane? You see my point?


No, No game involved. It's called something that a lot of people seem to lack now,PLAIN OLD COMMON SENSE! You date to learn about each other. It takes more than 3 to 5 to do that. Learn about each other. Given enough time you might figure out that you love each other. If you do,Have as much sex as you want. You see, If you do it this way, You are basing your relationship on love and respect for each other. Usually, If you base your relationship on love and respect for each other, It has a better chance of lasting.

But, The way most seem to want to do now, They base their relationship on "first" attraction and sex. Or, How good the sex is with that person. It's bound to fail. Look at the divorce rate for proof.

No, No game to it. As I said before, I'm kinda old school. I lose interest quick with a woman who will after just a few dates,lay down with me. A lot of people seem to think that if you're not sleeping together within 3 to 5 dates, You're not interested. That's not true for every man. To me, Their's a lot that goes with this. Dating someone, It's part of building trust.

If a woman will sleep with a man that quick,Who knows what she will do when his back is turned. It's also about character. Who are you,What are you? I personally like to know these things before I go sticking my pole in a pond that with all honesty,After three or five dates,I don't know you,you don't really know me.

You see, From the best I can tell,Now, It's all about the "feeling". If it feels right,do it. Well, Sometimes some things may feel right at the time,But in reality,That lust you both feel on the 3rd date, You may think is something else at the time,Until you wake up to that person beside you that was "right" last night and think to yourself, WTF am I doing here? OR, Even worse, A few months pass and what you once thought was "cute" about him or her,Now, Drives you insane? You see my point?


No, No game involved. It's called something that a lot of people seem to lack now,PLAIN OLD COMMON SENSE! You date to learn about each other. It takes more than 3 to 5 to do that. Learn about each other. Given enough time you might figure out that you love each other. If you do,Have as much sex as you want. You see, If you do it this way, You are basing your relationship on love and respect for each other. Usually, If you base your relationship on love and respect for each other, It has a better chance of lasting.

But, The way most seem to want to do now, They base their relationship on "first" attraction and sex. Or, How good the sex is with that person. It's bound to fail. Look at the divorce rate for proof.