And the notion that NO men want a wife, family and home is balogne. Usually there are two guys who want family life. The ones that had a better than average home life coming up or at least live in a community where that was the norm. It is a natural to them as breathing. There siblings have spouse, their coworkers, their neighbors, where they go to play or volunteer. Or the one who always wanted it so bad he could taste it.
You won't find them living in a singles complex, hanging out at party central, or doing high risk sports or volatile highly mobile professions. A guy who wants a family rarely drives and expensive sports car, crotch rocket, or hangs out in the casinos. He probably has not have a dui or a canibas card and he might not have a house but he probably had his same job for at least as long as you have had kids and plans on keeping it or at least getting a better one. They probably do something that shows they actually like kids.
Pacific, you should be named the Dr. Phil of Mingle.
My parents are still married, 51 years later, through thick and sometimes paper-thin. Divorce was very rare in my hometown growing up. My siblings are both married to good men, though they're both a little goofy. I own my home, and take care of it. I own a motorcycle, but not a crotch rocket, and a mildy-sporty well maintained 4 door sedan. I don't generally go to bars unless it's for my part-time business of DJ'ing and karaoke. I've been at my job for 17-going-on-18 years, and I don't usually indulge in high speed hijinks ( though there was an incident snowmobiling this year, but things like that are rare ). I volunteer for my hometown's Little League, and my 12 year old's friends all want to hang out at my house because we build models, paint and draw together, plus I let them have ( supervised ) free reign of all the electronics here in my home ( Playstations, Xbox, computers, etc.).
I enjoy being a Dad, to both my birth children and my former stepchildren. The main reason I've been single this long is that my youngest took it very hard, and for a long time he was my social life. Now that he's got a handle on it and knows I'm not going to abandon him, I'm back out in the really-real world. As far as wanting sex, I'm human, but I have morals, too. If all I wanted was sex, there's a bar 2 blocks away, and near closing time it wouldn't be very hard to find. But sex is easy, relationships are much, much harder to find.