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Topic: No one interested because your a father
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Spongebob Lover

Mon 07/27/20 01:42 AM

i don't think so
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Ricki Donovan

Wed 07/29/20 03:53 AM

I feel bad most of the time I found myself in such situation here. I believe been upfront would be so nice but it’s other way round when they found out about my kids. I really want a woman of my age that likes to be around kid.
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feelyoungagain

Sat 08/01/20 09:37 AM


I agree..in fact by my age I would find it a little odd if a man did not have children for it may signify his inability to commit to a monogamous relationship at any point in his life spock


LOL That is the most absurd thing I've heard. Commitment comes in many ways; not defined by having children. One can commit to goals, a job, etc. Besides, there are many reasons that could explain the absence of kids, the main one being one doesn't want kids o: I never had the opportunity. What does that say about me? Nothing; absolutely nothing. Besides, are you telling me that a man with children can commit? If so, how do you explain cheating husbands?...
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feelyoungagain

Sat 08/01/20 09:38 AM


I feel bad most of the time I found myself in such situation here. I believe been upfront would be so nice but it’s other way round when they found out about my kids. I really want a woman of my age that likes to be around kid.


Just be honest. Deception and "surprise" doesn't go over well. I make it clear I'm not a fan of kids. If you were to keep that from me, I would be livid for you wasting my valuable time AND leading me on under false pretenses. You want a woman to like you and what you bring to the table.
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feelyoungagain

Sat 08/01/20 09:40 AM



I agree..in fact by my age I would find it a little odd if a man did not have children for it may signify his inability to commit to a monogamous relationship at any point in his life spock
Well,wouldn't it be judgemental if you conclude that a person's inability to be in a monogamous relationship?It's always good to learn of facts that lead to tha situation because the choices we make could lead to being in such situations.We need to look closely at the contributing factors before we see the inability of a person.


Yep. Can't judge a book by its cover. People wonder why I don't have kids. Guess what? It's none of your business. For all I care, you can think what you want, but I promise you that you are wrong in your thoughts. Hence why I don't care what you think. LOL
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feelyoungagain

Sat 08/01/20 09:42 AM


Babies and toddlers are usually chick magnets.




Until they get older. So what's the point? LOL
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ConnieDp

Mon 08/03/20 09:12 AM

I love this forum.. I'm learning a lot of things in life.. very realistic..
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Leicesterman

Sun 08/09/20 11:16 AM

Ive been single for over 12 years, bringing up my kids, my wife passed away 2008.
Ive not been with anyone since. so for my 48th birthday in July I thought why not give it ago.

So I'm single, with two beautiful kids and a cat.
If I meet someone it would be great
If she's got kids don't bother me
Look at it as a extended family