Does anyone else feel that being honest on here and saying you've got kids to an ex partner it's more difficult to interact with someone and start at conversation that could lead to more?
Honesty/Being Honest
Why would I be otherwise?
My search is to find a woman that wants to share life experiences with me.
Since my profile reflects that one-one relationship and my goals, I don't feel my children are or should be a major deciding factor.
That is knowledge that comes after as part of the life experience she will be sharing.
Our children are very important to us (unless you are a scumbag) and the profile does have the option to select whether or not you have children and want children.
I have children, grown and not living with me, my profile depicts this (at the bottom). I also have listed that I do not want children.
I don't want to sire anymore children because my health prevents me from the activities required to raise a child.
I am not opposed to dating a woman that already has children but at my age preferences, most women I will date are entering into or have already past menopause. Their children will already be preteen, teens or young adults.
While you may not make your children the focus of your profile, I would think that if the subject comes up, you would be honest about it.
Who wants to enter into a relationship with a liar?
All in all, the primary focus of your profile should be of you.
A woman that is interested in you because you have children is not a date, she is a nanny, or worse. (not to diminish the nanny profession)
I want a woman choosing me because of me, not the children I sired, raised.
Focus on honesty and what it takes to find the right person for you and if they are the right person, your children will only solidify the interest.
Edited by
Tom4Uhere
on Thu 07/05/18 09:19 AM